2: When the woman begins her Giro or Molinette either to the right or to the left, is there some shorthand for knowing which step she starts on? IE: if her weight is on the right foot and she is lead to a Giro to the Left..? ..weight on the left foot? etc. How about Giros in the other direction starting with different feet? OK..and now the question; does she begin with a side step? back cross? front cross? Is there a beginning step that is easiest in each circumstance?? Do you look to begin (her) on a certain step??
Good for you for wanting to understand the woman's steps! IMO that's an important part of becoming a truly good leader who can easily navigate.
The molinete is just several steps put together into a "pattern". Its just such a standard pattern that it frequently gets done in its entirety. It also is easy to complete, unlike many other "patterns", because it rotates rather than travels. I'm sure you've learned some patterns that you never get to use because you always have to interrupt them halfway though due to navigation issues.
So as separate steps combined into a pattern, you can start or stop any place within the pattern. Remember everything in Tango is just single things put together.
That said, however, there are advantages to certain ways of executing molinetes. Starting a CCW M. with you both executing a sidestep (to her right) puts you in a good position to ensure her 1st step will be a backstep, by basing your pivot on your left leg. The advantage to having her do side,
back, side,
front is that she ends in the standard cross.
Since the cross is somewhat "neutral" choreographically, you already know a bazillion things you can do from her being in the cross (or you will eventually). If you start the sequence with the
forward ocho, then she ends in the backstep. Still lots of possibilities, but maybe a little harder for a beginner to figure something from there.
Whether she goes forward on her left or back on her left, she is still starting the CCW from something that put her on her
right leg. The difference for her ocho is in where YOUR weight is when you pivot. If your weight is on your right when you pivot, you open a space for her that makes her naturally take the forward ocho. If you pivot with your weight on your left, she will be sent into a back ocho. Either way, SHE is on her right and ocho'ing with her left leg. If she isn't on her right already, then you have to get her there for the 1st ocho in a CCW molinete (make sense?)
So in that sense, it "starts" with a sidestep. Or you could say that the sidestep is the preparation for the giro, since it doesn't need to be a rotated step.
CW is a little trickier, especially in CE because technically, you can't see over there. One of the advantages of keeping to the outer lane of the dance floor is that you can be more confident that there isn't any obstacle to your right.
If you do the CW version as a mirror of the CCW version, (side, back, side, front) she ends in the cross but it is the reverse of the usual cross. Ocho cortado is handy here to get to the typical left over right cross.
As a side note on styles and different ways people teach/ interpret the molinete: I was taught that there is a typical rhythm for the M. The steps of Side, Back, Side, Front are (correspondingly) Slow, Quick, Quick, Slow. I was also taught that the person doing the pattern creates the rhythm and provides the energy/ momentum. Obviously if the leader is doing a corkscrew or a lapiz or some other variation of remaining "static" while she goes around, he can't do much to provide energy. SHE might actually pull him around if he is pivoting on one foot.
Even if he is moving around (stepping) as well, as the satellite revolving around an axis, its much easier for her to provide the momentum than for the "maypole" to provide it. And my opinion as a follower is that it is uncomfortable for the leader to attempt any kind of "pull" to get me around. The leader indicates that she should keep going with his body until he indicates that she should stop. But she can act on this suggestion without him providing any energy to it, even to the point of her rotaing him on a standing pivot.
(If the leader wants to do a molinete around the follower, then its all reversed... she is the pole and he goes around. She will then be unable to provide any momentum and he pivots her. Or he can establish a center pole and they both do the molinete steps around an axis that is between them.)
Make sense?
Hope this helps.