i bet you'll find a salsa thread where you're question will get tons of response, quix, from the peeps who frequent the clubs there. me, i haven't been, so... dunno.
i've heard so much about how snobby the on-2 community can be... and have certainly seen it.
that's sad to hear. the on-2 community is seattle, although very small and generally very advanced, always tends to wear a smile when an on-1 dancer asks one of them to dance. it ends up being a fiasco and the said on-1 dancer will usu. never ask again, it certainly doesn't lack in etiquette. the on-1 community makes up for that though by forgetting good manners
IMHO, tho, fwiw, i think it's the work of the follower to follower your lovely on-1 lead!
if it was possible to lead in a way that will clearly take someone used to on-2 to dance on-1, many of us wouldn't ask such questions

salsa, as in many other dances, is danced based on certain mutually agreed upon structural rules. the on-1/on-2 difference breaks one of the very fundamental structural rules about the dance in a subtle way that only very advanced dancers who have tried both can adapt from one to another seamlessly, and the rest will have a hard time making the switch. i've tried to follow on-2, so i can relate. So while I certainly expect someone who can dance both on-1 and on-2 to accomate the wishes of a guest in their city, I'd certainly understand when someone refuses me a dance because she really believes that she can't dance on-1 and keep her sanity also!
I was just trying to poll to see if there were many salseras in nyc who are ambidextrous, because if they are, then I might not be too disappointed.
i'd certainly be happy to.
i'd love to dance with you samina

I often think that we need a DF dance camp. Maybe pick a city that many of us want to visit and have a get together. It will make for a lot of dancing, and much good socializing
