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Ha ha! No, I am 5'0", size 0-4 (depending on designer/style), but my build is anything but slender. My last partner kept saying I am built just like Julia Gorchakova, if that gives you any indication.
If you can wear a sorta-mermaid shape, that one Me just posted is GORGEOUS (but I love lace so I may be biased.)
And for me, my dream would be to marry someone who'd be comfortable doing a cha cha, or a Gold Smooth Fox routine (I could fake it) or a jive as a first dance. If I'm going to show off, I'm going to SHOW OFF. Plus have fun. I'd hate to have to look back and have done a waltz or something schmalzy. (Bolero would be fun, but a bit....uh...too-too much.)
Are you a ballroom dancer ?
Why don't you just make an unstoned simple ballgown and wear it to the wedding.
If I had competed when I got married that was definitely what I would have done !
I currently have a ballgown that could pass for a wedding dress.
PM me if you want to see a picture !
So apparently those dresses with the removable ballgown skirts are called "convertible"... TAK, thought of you with this one:
customcouturebridal.com/Convertible-Wedding-Dress-p/cb110.htm
and found this handy article, too!
pashweddings.com/content/articles/131/1/Convertible-Gowns-Going-From-Your-Ceremony-to-Reception-in-Style/Page1.html