Recent content by aligilli

This has happened on more than one occasion with different ladies. They were the ones who grinded into me. I never paid them any direct eye contact at first. The reason I dont look at them is because I want to show that I have my own thing going on and whether they dance with me or not, it dosnt...

My purpose for grinding is to just have fun as thats the dance/music on the dance floor at that moment. Like for example, last night i went onto the dance floor and hooked up(danced) with one lady. There was no verbal communication/eye contact initiation of anykind but we ended up together...

I've been hitting the local club scenes pretty hard lately. Have grinded with alot of ladies, 50% of the time front to front. But one thing i've noticed is that they dont look me in the eye. There really isnt any sort of any eye contact smile or whatever. Should I take that as a negative sign?

sorry but that is revelant because? how come everytime theres a grind question, there are 5 responses that say dont grind?

but if we started side by side and we subtle move so that she ended up infront and zero distance (but not touching) me, is that still an invitation for trouble if I put my hands on her hips? How about if we started side by side and ended up just infront but a little distance? I just want to...

so it was wrong for me to grind someone without asking? I just figured and started moving closer and closer to her while she started moving infront of me. Could grinding her in that scenario resulted in a slap to the face?

Am not trying to offend or sound rude, please excuse me if I am. You and the clubs you go to are very sophisticated. At the clubs I've been to, its all just dirty dancing. If you're not dirty dancing, you're in the outter circle and you look stupid just dancing by yourself. That's why I want to...

hey relax. wasnt trying to be offend anybody, dont get uptight. The only reason why i mentioned salsa etc was to differentiate the atmosphere so people understand what exactly i'm asking. I never said salsa was bad or grinding was good or whatnot. Just wanted to know more about the etiquette...

again we're talking about club music here, not some salsa or jazz club. The only form of contact here is grinding. why would you not assume that asking to dance means grinding? if not grinding then what are you going to do with club music? you could just dance by yourself like everyone else not...

Sorry. I did read through alot of the threads but the info wasnt clear and to the point, it was full of clutter. So I wanted to get right to the *** of the chase on this issue. You'd go ask strangers on the dance before or outside the floor whether she wants to dance or not. And it's assumed...

I'm a guy thats new to the dancing/club scene. I've grinded with girlfriends before but thats about it. When you go to the dance floor, how do you know a stranger girl wants to grind? What someone told me was just go dance by yourself really close to someone. Then if she moves closer, then move...