TTanguero
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For me, writing, driving and dancing are the three current examples that come to mind. Rock climbing and motorcycling too, back in the days when I did those.I find flow in writing [...] And I find flow in tango
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For me, writing, driving and dancing are the three current examples that come to mind. Rock climbing and motorcycling too, back in the days when I did those.I find flow in writing [...] And I find flow in tango
I used to find some kind of 'flow' in programming systems, even hardware design for a purpose, or solving some computer system problem, even study for exams, but dance has always been subtly different; perhaps because it's recreation or leisure rather than work. More a sense of being aware of where I'm positioned, proximities, and in the music with my partner (shades of the attibution to Einstein of the 'pretty girl' relative to the 'hot stove'). But it's not 'free movement', 'dance as if no one's watching', but following the learned elements and techniques.I find flow in writing
It is better for me, anyway. When I cannot dance in flow, I have to think about every little detail; dance feels like work, like a part-time job. When I can dance in flow, I can relax, I can meditate in motion; dance is highly therapeutic. I am happy to work on dance . . . in coaching, drills, and practices. Even discussing theory here is a sort of (mental) labor. But the end goal for me when I go out in the evening after working all day is not to work, which is possible only in a flow state.'Flow' state, or being immersed in some activity or topic: Does it matter? Is it significant? In the case of dance, does it make me, or my dance partnership, 'better' in some way? (How was it 'better'?)
I'm not dismissing the feelgood factor. Of course it's 'better' personally that things went well, that we relax, that we feel good about ourselves, and all the good physical and mental consequences. Alcohol and chocolate also promote some (not all) of the same effect! Dance, and in particular AT, is also associated with other good medical effects.It is better for me, anyway
I envy you. Writing is always a life-or-death struggle for me. When I sit down at the page, I'm more likely to vomit than write a single verse. I always wanted to be a singer-songwriter, but in 20 years I've only written eight songs. Melodies come to me by accident, but rhymes always bar their teeth.I find flow in writing..
I would say yes. Let's look at some things that make you a better dancer in AT:I suppose what I'm really saying is does it make me, and my dance partner, 'better' dancers?
And I envy you . . . You've been able to dance multiple styles, where I fight to master just one, and you are also a capable musician and DJ, while I lack the musical skills for those activities. I have lots of skills of no relevance to these forums, but as far as relevant skills go, I have "dances exclusively tango specifically to tango music." I'm not a generalist despite repeated attempts to branch out. This may be why tango flow is so important to me: Dance and music aren't innate to the way my brain works, and I want to enjoy them without having to hear all kinds of noise in my brain.I envy you.
It is for most people. My professional life as an editor means that my relationship to would-be writers is a lot like that of an orthopedic surgeon to would-be skiers.Writing is always a life-or-death struggle for me.
I don't disagree. Perhaps I'm questioning whether I'm the appropriate judge of that.That is, unless you disagree that dancing musically and in harmony with a partner, inventing clean steps that don't endanger yourself or others, is "better."