Dancing Irishman
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Lots of people compete for many different reasons; all are valid. Nothing is fun all of the time. In fact, "fun" can be defined in many different ways. What one finds "fun" isn't "fun" to another.
PERSONALLY: If someone asks me why I dance, it has never occurred to me to answer, "for fun." That's not a slight against anyone who does, though - it's all valid. Me, I have to dance. I have something to express and I can't get that out any other way. What do I do for fun? Sit on the couch and watch Netflix.Personally, I don't find dance "fun." This is semantics. I love the work. I love the doing. I love the crying over one move one week and then the pride I feel in having not fallen down in the doing it the next week - the progress. I love rereading my dance journal and see how I struggled two years ago over a move in bolero that is, today, my favorite. I love the process. Knocking the heck out of myself AGAIN in cha cha (the bruises this week are green!) isn't fun for me. But by God one day my body action and my feet will come together, and I'll be able to execute. Working toward that is what I love. If we want to infer that yes, I love dancing, and yes, because I do, I do find it "fun," then we can do that. Because we all know there are many other ways to spend this much money and time!
But if the idea is that a dancer isn't "having fun," and somehow that's a slight, like a dancer is "doing it wrong," I disagree with that.
But more power to us all, because we dance.![]()
Hundred percent agree with your sentiment. I hate when "they've lost the fun" is a slight used by third parties to critique others doing a leisure activity/hobby differently than they would. I personally like to think I seek out a different type of fun than others do, which is what drives me to put in the hours in the practice studio, at the gym, etc.
It's aimed at outdoorsy activities, but a friend posted this gem to facebook recently (not her article) and I think it captures my sentiment (and maybe s2k's, though I won't pretend to know another's motives) perfectly: http://www.backcountry.com/explore/type-ii-fun.