Big Love

cornutt

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Has anyone watched this new HBO show yet? I've seen two episodes, and I haven't been able to decide what I think of it.
 
cornutt said:
Has anyone watched this new HBO show yet? I've seen two episodes, and I haven't been able to decide what I think of it.

I've watched the first two episodes as well, and I have the same reaction - I can't make a decision about it. The premise is interesting because it hasn't been done before. But to me, the overall feeling is too "Desperate Housewives". I don't have a benchmark for evaluating how real it is because I don't know any families like those on the show. I've seen documentaries about compounds of polygamous families, and their stories seem light years away from those of Bill Paxton and his wives. Of course, maybe the show isn't trying to be completely true to life.

I guess my overall take is that it's a little too "Hollywood", but I'll still watch because the actors doing a good job and the storylines definitely have my attention.
 
What's the show about? A polygamous family? Hmm. I have a bunch of HBO channels on my cable lineup. When does Big Love come on? I'll check it out. :cool:
 
pygmalion said:
What's the show about? A polygamous family? Hmm. I have a bunch of HBO channels on my cable lineup. When does Big Love come on? I'll check it out. :cool:

Yes, it's about a polygamous family. The man is a successful businessman. He has three wives. An interesting twist is that one of the wives apparently had children by a previous marriage. The family lives in two adjacent houses that share a back yard. Apparently the man grew up in a compound in an atmosphere that bordered on being a cult, and some of the compound elders (including his parents to an extent) consider him a traitor even though he's still mostly living according to their beliefs.

Now, I'll say up front that polygamy is not the sort of thing I approve of. But the show's creators have done a fairly good job of filling out the characters so far (it's hard to tell for sure from just two episodes). They have mostly managed to avoid playing to the obvious stereotypes. I do see RhumbaWaltz's point about the show edging on Desparate Housewives territory; that is something they are going to have to be careful of. But the situation, and the way the characters work within it, stirs up emotions that aren't easily categorized or labeled. (The show's oddly moving opening sequence is absolutely killer in this regard.) It's the first drama I've come across in a while that has managed to hold my interest.

First run for new episodes is Sundays at 10:00 Eastern. I've been catching the repeats on Thursdays at 10:00.
 
I'll definitely check it out. My ex grew up in a similar situation (for real, not for TV.) As many as five wives, one husband/dad (the ex's dad,) and a bunch of kids, all in a compound house. Actually, two large houses that were enclosed within a large gated area. Must've been interesting, to say the least.
 
I've seen the first couple of eps. I have two observations: it's hilariously funny, and at the same time it's somewhat creepy--with the whole polygamy thing. Of course, that may be just my socialization showing through. I'm sure if you're a polygamist it's no big deal...
 
Yeah. Polygamy is not exactly my cup of tea, either, Joe, although lots of people swear by it. Dare I show my socialization and say it's probably mostly men who like the idea? J/K! lol. Oh well.

I'll check it out tonight, if I remember. :cool:
 
Well, if it's anything like it's portrayed in the show, even though Bill loves his three wives, who the heck wants the headache of having to manage not one, but THREE women??? Not to mention the household expenses--it's a good thing Bill runs a successful business...
 
Hehe! Good point. I'm not sure I can snuggle up to the term "manage," but I see what you're getting at. Building a marriage with one person is hard enough. Why in the world would one want to build a marriage with three people at the same time? Eeek. The term "glutton for punishment," takes on a whole new depth of meaning. :lol:
 
Well, I guess you don't always need to "manage" a relationship, i.e. I guess you could just wing it, but a little planning goes a long way.
 
lol. I was just teasing. I agree about the planning, btw. You should see some of my old goal setting notebooks -- the ones with weekly entries, one page per category. One of my categories (when it applies) is always my relationship. Having goals works. :cool:
 

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