Big School Dance Coming, Need Help

[varsitysoccer88]

Hey everyone,

I could REALLY use some help. We've got a BIG school dance coming up, and seeing as I'm a freshman, this is pretty much my first real dance.

Little bit of backround on me: Been playing varsity soccer since last year (8th grade), so I know a fair amount of girls and boys in High School. I'm 6'1", about 210 lbs and the only kind of dancing they do at HS dances is grinding... that's it. I've seen it done before but never tried, and it looks kinda difficult.

My questions:
1) How do I approach a girl to dance? Remember, this is High School, not ballroom dancing. I really don't want to go up asking "m'lady, can I have this dance". Do I just push up on a girl or do I ask her or what?

2) Any helpful advice about actually dancing?

3) I know this sounds kinda wierd... so I'll try to phrase it PG... if a girl is grinding herself into you, isn't it kinda hard not to get at least a little "aroused"? Never done it so I don't know, but should I expect this kinda thing to happen?

Thanks a lot in advance,
Kyle

 

[tacad]

We've had some discussion on these subjects. But as you say we are a partner dance forum. Anyway check out these threads at this link:

http://www.dance-forums.com/viewtopic.php?t=3089

Oh. Don't just push up on a girl whatever you do. :lol:

 

[lynn]

I think the answer to your first question is quite simple, simple ask the girl whether or not she wants to dance should suffice.

 

[Lallylander]

o god..this woulda helped out at my dance..

too late..im never going on a dance with her again lol