I'm also fine with performances not conforming to the rules of social dancing, and to be honest, it confuses me when people complain about that.In a recent thread Andabien coined this acronym BIIT="But is it tango?". We all know this dead horse has been beaten one too many times, or as subliminal put it,, but I felt like I needed to add my 2 cents.![]()
Teachers/dancers/maestros performing in front of an audience are, during that time, performing artists. Therefore it doesn't bother me if they take liberties with their dancing style or moves, or the music they choose. Their job at that point is to entertain the audience, or make them them think, or push them outside their comfort zone, or whatever philosophical mission they take upon themselves to accomplish in that performance. Even if they just want to mime steps to complete silence, I can appreciate that.
My problem is when a DJ decides to take that approach and force non-tango music on me. Or when fellow dancers decide to perform their fancy moves on the dancefloor that they are sharing with me. That is when I ask, BIIT? And "Can you guys let me dance my tango already?"
Thoughts ?
As for the DJ thing, as long as it's advertised what percent of traditional vs alternative is played (or you know the tendencies of the DJ), then there's no problem, as you have the option to avoid it.
My biggest pet peeve with DJs who play a lot of alternative music, is how they construct the tanda. They'll put three songs into a tanda that have absolutely no business being in the same tanda. I'm the type of dance that likes to hear what the first song is, before asking someone to dance. That only works if the first song gives you a clue about what kind of music will be in the rest of the tanda. I've even heard DJs put an alternative tango, vals, and milonga into the same tanda.
I was at a milonga a few weeks back, where an alternative tanda started. The first song (although I've forgotten what it was), had a "mood" that I'd describe as a connection song. I picked someone who I though had a good embrace, for what would be a slow, mostly walking/rockstep dance. I lucked out, picked a good follower, and the first dance was very nice. We chatted in between songs, and the next song started, "Borges y Paraguay" by Bajofondo Tango. This is NOT a connection song, as far as I'm concerned. While it's a great song, it gets very lively, and did not belong in this tanda. I asked the follower if she was familiar with this song, (which she was), and I warned her that I could dance this song the way I danced the prior one, and asked if that would be alright. We both talked about whether to just sit it out, but eventually she decided she was ready for the ride. The dance ended up being pretty good, but it was a shame that I couldn't have had another connection song with her, as her embrace was very good.