pygmalion said:
Sagitta raised a really interesting question in another thread. The question of women's bodies, what's allowed to show, what's attractive, and how important physical attractiveness is to dancers. Anybody have thoughts?
Everybody has thoughts, but oftentimes guys won't actually share their thoughts on this topic...
What's allowed to show? That very much depends on the venue, and the type of dance, I think. Brazilian Samba is done in beaded and feathered bikinis, while often ballroom competitions have women fully clothed. At Lindy in the Park, or in really humid areas, as little clothing as possible is acceptable.
What's attractive? That is much too personal a question for anyone to answer for anyone but themselves. Personally, I like swimmers bodies, what someone else described as "thick" - muscular and fit. However, I also like thin women and women with curvy bodies as well. (OK, so I mostly find all women attractive, so sue me, 8^) I find really overweight people (men and women) less attractive because I know that their weight limits what they can do, and threatens their health.
How important is physical attractiveness in a dance partner? Unless you are talking extreme body odor, "attractiveness" doesn't come into play. The only criteria I have in a dance partner is if they look like they want to dance? Sometimes locally there are extra guys at dances, so I'll ask the guys to dance. One of my favorite dance partners in California was obese, probably around 300 pounds. I liked dancing with her because she enjoyed it so much, even though her body, and lack of fitness, really limited what we could do together.
pygmalion said:
I have many, but I'll throw out one to get the ball rolling. I wear a dress size six. When I go to department stores to buy clothes, that translates into a size small, sometimes extra small. When I go to buy dance clothes, that translates into a large, sometimes extra large. Why the seeming bias toward skinny, skinny women? And is it just women? Or do very thin male dancers have an advantage too? If so, why?
Dancers tend to exercise a lot, and therefor are thinner? I don't know. Dancing a lot certainly hasn't helped me! According to a recent Body Mass Index chart I need to lose 45 lbs...