Disadvantages of Dancing

[Shooshoo]

I have been observing some of the guys who I have started dancing with. Now they have become clever to dance, something is happening to their personalities. They think they’ve become more cool, can get all the girls, etc. I make fun of them (in a nice way) cause I know them, they’re much younger, and I’ve seen them when they were just starting (so they can't play cool on me).

I think dancing can sometimes misguide some guys on what’s cool and what’s not.

Do you have other negative things that can come from dancing?

 

[fascination]

wracking my brain.....must ponder this for a while

 

[Purr]

Do you have other negative things that can come from dancing?

Two quickly come to mind.

It's all too easy to spend way to much money on dancing.

You may abandon your non-dancing friends because they don't dance themselves.

 

[fascination]

:doh: sheesh...ever have a moment when something was so close you couldn't even see it....lol...anyhow, er, yep to both purr

 

[cornutt]

Well, gaining confidence goes to some people's heads. I don't that is unique to dancing. And who ever heard of young men being cocky... I never did that... nah...

 

[Shooshoo]

Well, gaining confidence goes to some people's heads. I don't that is unique to dancing. And who ever heard of young men being cocky... I never did that... nah...

...yes, I see it in your avatar.

 

[Purr]

:doh: sheesh...ever have a moment when something was so close you couldn't even see it....lol...anyhow, er, yep to both purr

:friend:

You're ok. There are many benefits to dancing that outweigh the disadvantages.

 

[fascination]

just gonna say, if ONLY it were solely the young one's...there are certain things that just aren't that cute as one ages(excepting you of course, cornutt)

 

[fascination]

:friend:

You're ok. There are many benefits to dancing that outweigh the disadvantages.

thanks, that's it, support the habit...I think this makes you co-dependent by the way

 

[nikita]

Shooshoo-
imagine you're a guy- no girl is even looking at you...
Then you learn how to shake your hips and suddenly everything is different
For me, that's okay. Be happy for them .

 

[cornutt]

just gonna say, if ONLY it were solely the young one's...there are certain things that just aren't that cute as one ages(excepting you of course, cornutt)

... MY DW says my function in the relationship is to keep her from getting too serious...

 

[Purr]

thanks, that's it, support the habit...I think this makes you co-dependent by the way

Pretty much.

 

[fascination]

... MY DW says my function in the relationship is to keep her from getting too serious...

there's childlike and childish, you don't strike me as childish...just fun

 

[DrDoug]

Well, gaining confidence goes to some people's heads. I don't that is unique to dancing.

It's not unique to men, either.

 

[fascination]

good point