lynn said:
i agree there's no difference technically between a social & competitive dancer - i think the problem sometimes is in how a instructor chooses to teach the two. I've often find that social dance instructors choose to teach the "friendly" side of dancing - lots of variations, patterns, but not so much technique whereas competitive instructors are the opposite. I'm saying this is right or wrong, just perhaps the difference in teaching style arises because of different goals and needs.
Oh--I see what you're saying now....
Yeah, I agree that especially from the standpoint of the teacher, it's important to keep the interest level there by getting people to actually dance. A teacher can lose students by not introducing enough new patterns.
On the other hand, when you dance with someone who has learned a lot of patterns but not much technique, you often can't dance with them--they either can't lead or they can't follow. The technical aspects of dancing are not merely for the sake of sharpening the dancing or making it look "competitive"--they are central to lead and follow.
Yet for some reason, and maybe--I'll go out on a limb here--it has to do with general American laziness, there's a feeling that technical work takes the "fun" out of dancing. I find this puzzling, as there's nothing to me that is less fun than dancing with a partner who is not connected to you, who has to be forcibly nudged and shoved all around. And many women have told me there's nothing less fun than a guy who is going all over the place with mixed signals or in some cases no signals whatsoever.
When I used to show in dog agility, there was this madate that we all had to keep it "fun" for the dog. And while that sounds pretty inoffensive, the bottom line implication was that those of us who had taken the trouble to train our dogs well so that they knew what they were doing on course had somehow taken the "fun" out of it. But at the same time, there was this ironic kind of praise that you'd throw out to a dog-handler team that was just hopeless b/c the dog was all over the place with this goofy lost expression. "They looked they were having fun!" Which is the dog agility version of that great old southern standby comment, "Well, bless her heart!"
Again, I never saw the "fun" in dogs who are lost on the course. When I used to train, I would sometimes show people how to run a sequence, and I'd take their dog and all of a sudden the dog was, in fact, having fun.
Likewise, at the many social dances I've been at, judging from the pained look on some of the faces, the "fun" that one might be having from doing all those different patterns is really not in evidence. At best, I've seen a few couples have "fun" for a few weeks, and eventually disappear, never to return.
In short, IMO, better to have just a few patterns you dance well than a whole mess of patterns you dance poorly--and what will teach you to dance those patterns well is good technique. So social or competitive, I think you're best off with someone who will emphasize technique and not just introduce a lot of patterns.
I say this mostly for the sake of lurkers and first-time dancers who are looking to see how to find a teacher and what to look for. In the long run, [/i]more people will dance with you if you have solid technique than if you know a lot of patterns.
Cheers,
GR