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i have to be careful about not following when i have lessons.
I've danced with some women who I call Routine Girls. They don't connect with their partner properly. In one egregious example that I videoed a routine girl was so blatantly obviously not connecting with her pro during her showcase routine that she declined to have my video posted. Having danced with her, I can say that many women with only a few lessons are easier to social dance with than she.
I think it's the leader's job to live partly in the future while the follow is supposed to take care of the present moment.
To the follows who practice their routine choreography solo, how do you avoid Routine Girl Syndrome?
^^ THIS. (We've actually nicknamed my imaginary partner and joke about where he is stylistically different than pro... and better, because he's never in my way)
I do like that I know my routines cold so lessons can just be about connection, adapting to another person and how they interpret the music (vice how I do), etc.
I can sink into routines as soon as i know the timing and steps - that way my brain can focus on the moment and the following and using my body right. But we do still spend a lot of time on me releasing and following the lead, it's improving the dancing.To the follows who practice their routine choreography solo, how do you avoid Routine Girl Syndrome?
It usually isn't a problem, as those with more intense afflictions of Routine Girl Syndrome tend to avoid social dancing. As far as cutting them some slack, I do but my private instructor thinks I do too much of that.Short version - I have different dancing modes.
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If you find some of the ladies that have had lessons that difficult to dance with, don't ask them to dance. But realize they are somewhere in their dance journey, and are working on things. I doubt they are trying to be bad followers, though it certainly is possible they (and/or their teachers) don't put a high priority on connection and following skills. Following well is hard, as is leading. Cut those having difficulty with it some slack.
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