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I was first with cryptical !
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I was first with cryptical !
Clubs in the US absolutely do need a licence to play music in public.assume that in the USA this would be considered a fair-use (it is a legal term in copyright law)) since the clubs are not required to pay anything to any organization for playing music.
It's a perennial issue that will never go away, I think, despite free choice being the obvious ideal. Why on earth would people seek to impose obligations on dancers? Without mutual desire to dance with each other, there is no tango. Wanting to dance with someone who doesn't want to dance with you is one thing which we all experience, but placing pressure on, or even obligating that person to dance with you is just ridiculous.In particular, the free choice of dance partners often clashes with equality for everyone.
That's the relaxed view of someone who usually finds enough dance partners. If you have to give up the leisure activity because that's not the case - or you then have to shut down a milonga you organize - the views are often completely different.It's a perennial issue that will never go away, I think, despite free choice being the obvious ideal. Why on earth would people seek to impose obligations on dancers? Without mutual desire to dance with each other, there is no tango.
For me, the answer to those type of questions is this ...Shouldn't you also dance a tanda with former beginner class mates?
Shouldn't you also dance a tanda with a wallflower?
Shouldn't you also dance a tanda with a stranger?
Shouldn't you also go to a local milonga to give the community "something back"?
Agreed.Honestly, even with a translation app I have no clue.
-It cannot be a romantic fantasy. An encuentro is the wrong format for this. If you're looking for something like that, go to Poreč.
Networking means that you are interested in the needs of a certain environment and take them into account. Recently I was at a quite “cosy” event without any explicit or implicit barriers. And in Northern Europe that means leaders are in short supply. It's rare that I'm able to respond to three needs at once, but here it was the case.-Compensating for the lack of good dances can't be the solution either. We men don't have it.
Encuentro organizers definitely feel the need to find suitable “counterweights” for the women on their waiting list.-Or is it the chance for networking and to get acquainted to the organizer?
Not at every milonga, unfortunately.That's the relaxed view of someone who usually finds enough dance partners. If you have to give up the leisure activity because that's not the case - or you then have to shut down a milonga you organize - the views are often completely different.
1. Do it all the time, it's fun! (To be fair, only one's in the same city as I am, but I do that whenever I meet the others, even if we're not the most amazing dancers in the world.)Shouldn't you also dance a tanda with former beginner class mates?
Shouldn't you also dance a tanda with a wallflower?
Shouldn't you also dance a tanda with a stranger?
Shouldn't you (ok, not you) also show solidarity with other women?
Shouldn't you also go to a local milonga to give the community "something back"?

Here too, I don't understand your concerns. We all here are experienced and sought-after dancers. And no one will give up his hobby or the position of an organizer just because of deficits. Unfortunately, the reality is the other way round, most dancers tend to grossly overestimate themselves and are immune to any criticism. And if someone should be unsure whether he or she will be invited at an encuentro, you should take a dancer from your peer group with you as a quality witness.That's the relaxed view of someone who usually finds enough dance partners. If you have to give up the leisure activity because that's not the case - or you then have to shut down a milonga you organize..
Of course, and I do some of the points too. But things turn around when you think it's "right" and others should also do it "right" so that something develops "better".We should never dance with somebody when we don't want to do so. However, we can want to do so for many different reasons – which could include any of the above.
Well, I actually was thinking more about making oneself known to the organizers so that one could end up on the set list of foreign DJs next year.Classic networking.. means that they will stop dancing tango..
I don't think it's ever a question of "should" here. Also, in all cases, it depends.Shouldn't you also dance a tanda with former beginner class mates?
Shouldn't you also dance a tanda with a wallflower?
Shouldn't you also dance a tanda with a stranger?
Shouldn't you (ok, not you) also show solidarity with other women?
Shouldn't you also go to a local milonga to give the community "something back"?