Get Outta There!!

..Reviewing a ..book from the early 50s.... There is no one size fits all place for the man's hand on the woman's back..
This is a photo of what Sebastián Arce called "deep embrace" (V-hold). It was taken at an open air milonga 1931 in Berlin (Wannsee) by Eva Besnyö.
1931 openair Wann Eva  Besnyö.jpg
 
This is a photo of what Sebastián Arce called "deep embrace" (V-hold). It was taken at an open air milonga 1931 in Berlin (Wannsee) by Eva Besnyö.
There was a lot more to the workshop I attended but the preferred embrace (perhaps by request?) for that workshop was squared up not V. The not crossing the midline was about leaders not causing the followers to “break the body line”. I didn’t take any notes though so perhaps I missed something.
 
I find that a lot of people don't dissociate. If we're talking about step 3 of the 8-count basic, the man should turn his shoulders/torso slightly to the right/clockwise so that his chest faces his partner and the woman should turn her shoulders/torso slightly to the right/clockwise so that her chest faces her partner.
Or they dissociate, but then somehow turn to face straight ahead, leaving the follower at their side on 4/5 for the cross rather than leading the follower into the cross. And then we get to 6 (and moving the follower with the chest)...

The problem referred to, however, appears to be before any movement has even been initiated. My suspicion then is something about the basic embrace, which seems to have become something more formal and stereotyped than a 'hug' - and assuming it's not an intended style. Various opinions about the position of the leader's right arm and hand seem to indicate that this is pulling the follower round to the side rather than blocking and keeping the follower aligned.

Any of the above is pure speculation. It could just be a set of followers. This really needs to be observed to consider adjustments.
 
I’ve found that leaders who place their right arm completely across the follower’s back tend to pull slightly to their right during the dance. Perhaps not crossing the mid-line of the follower’s back could be a solution? This is not my own idea it was taught in a workshop by Sebastian Arce and Marianna Montes many years ago.
At the very least, as a leader you should carefully check if there is enough leeway in the right elbow. I usually have to come far forward with my shoulder when leading left turns or such moves. Sometimes it doesn't work either and I just put my hand on the lady's back, which for me is quality downgrade of the embrace.
 
I can't take it anymore!

For some reason, women wedge their left armpit into my right armpit. I don't know if 1) this is what they were taught, 2) the leader shoves them into his armpit, or 3) the woman has a hard frame and pushes hard on my left hand, pushing herself into the armpit. It ruins her dancing and makes it impossible for me to lead ochos, molinetes, and boleos.
I frequently have to suffer this. I fully sympathize with you!

There must be something wrong going on in the teaching these days. I find more women trying to offset themselves to my right. If I adjust that by correcting the embrace after a short while they will have slide back! The worst are who slide to the right in a V embrace.
 
Presumably, people love your directness and non-conformity. My niche is more aesthetics. You could also call me a softie. The wine has to match the dish and the color of the tie has to match the suit and shirt. Therefore, it is not a norm, Arbee, its rather a serving suggestion.
Well, I'm with you on the aesthetic front.
 
I frequently have to suffer this. I fully sympathize with you!

There must be something wrong going on in the teaching these days. I find more women trying to offset themselves to my right. If I adjust that by correcting the embrace after a short while they will have slide back! The worst are who slide to the right in a V embrace.
Embrace them center to center with a firm embrace and make sure she pulls in tight with her arm over your shoulder and she won't move. Of course, not every woman dances that way...but many do. You just have to find them.
 
Embrace them center to center with a firm embrace and make sure she pulls in tight with her arm over your shoulder and she won't move. Of course, not every woman dances that way...but many do. You just have to find them.
If I were to only dance with the followers that I like dancing with, it will not be a problem. Tonight I danced with someone whom I could prevent from sliding into far right. Last time I danced with the same follower three days back, she kept going into wide V + far right.

I don’t have issues adjusting frame and position during the dance to resolve these. Open the embrace a little, walk on dark side, forward orcho, and there are many other ways where you can make the follower move away from far right where they have tucked themselves and then close that space on the right (bring in the right upper arm, drop it and hold it firmer). But all that gets irritating and exhausting when you want to flow with the music. If a follower has one bad habit then they likely have other bad habits. It is like a leader that leans over, has other things that need fixing too. Many of the right side tuckers have misaligned axis due to being in that position (think of leaning tower of pisa), head tilting into the leader, and not properly balanced. Sometimes these are interconnected because they are self-compensating for their own wrong position or axis. With all those issues if they can’t walk well or land on the beat properly the problems are getting compounded.
 
I hadn’t realised so many leaders find a V-embrace uncomfortable. There nust be something wrong in how its being taught. Are people just copying from YouTube?

FWIW this is the squared-up, close embrace I mean:


This video shows the V-embrace, which they call “close embrace”, really well:
 
I hadn’t realised so many leaders find a V-embrace uncomfortable. There nust be something wrong in how its being taught
Or they're unaware that there were, and are, alternatives. Sometimes what you were once taught becomes the one true way. That's the way you were told the myth of how they used to dance. But when and where? Early 20th century? GA? AT as taught in US and Europe in 1980/90's? BsAs nowadays? Show tango? There's no standard or correct way, but there are ways that can be adopted to make the dance for the two participants work better in their situation.
 
There's a lot of information to digest. I'm going to be more observant than usual and experiment for a better understanding.
I wrote in a dance magazine that dancers should dance AT in AT Mode, not Ballroom Mode. My experience is that a lot of dancers migrate from ballroom. My experience in group lessons is that the focus is on steps, not what my AT teacher calls dance fundamentals (axis, frame, posture, and balance.) Frame isn't corrected.

This explains why I can't lead sacadas. When a couple dances ballroom, their sternums are off centered. Their feet are also off centered. To execute a sacada, I have to step into the space between my partner's legs. BUT, if the space is off centered, I can't get inside.

The same thing applies to barridas. I need my partner's foot directly in front of me. If it's off to the right, I may lose my axis trying to reach it. That's not good.

I expect more epiphanies.
 

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