…If I recall when you talked tango style it was in context of style of embrace, which how the tango styles are usually discussed. Here in the OP video they are assigning the same labels to categorize the tango music itself.
No, I never reduced it to the embrace. And I‘m longer in tango than those guys in the vids. For me, styles also include the interpretation of the music and, consequently, the choice of music. The vocabulary is also style-dependent. I consider style a dialect, and my personal ambition was to speak four dialects.
Many here on DF found that somewhat offensive. Perhaps because I was essentially expressing a certain contempt. People see dialects and confessions as a form of orientation. I recall that my statement, "d'Arienzo doesn't fit into tango de salón," caused some outrage here. The dancers want to apply the same sauce to every tango, i.e., not adapt their dancing to the specific music.
I learned the milonguero style from a milonguero veteran and tango de salón from an Urquiza dissident. And, of course, I asked both of them about their music choices. There is that association of music and style, regardless of whether one wants to cultivate it as a traditional asset or disregard it.
I'd also like to mention that I've stylistically labeled my music library from the very beginning. As a DJ, I follow the TTVTTM scheme, but TT means for me that tango del club (d'Arienzo) is always followed by tango de salón (di Sarli) (for example).