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Wafer that hasn't been blessed, is my understanding.
i agree, peach... very nice tradition... barring mom's grumblingWe have a tradition where the oldestperson starts with it and says a few words. Glad to have people there, remembering those who couldn't be, grateful for what you have, same time next year, blah blah blah. Then she'll take it and go to someone and greet them and wish them merry xmas and blah blah blah, and they'll break off part of it, and kiss each other. And then each will turn and do the same thing with someone else. So, by the end, you end up having a handful of crumbs that everyone in the room has touched (you're supposed to eat it, which is the only part of the ritual that squicks me out a bit), and you've said a few words to everyone, and given everyone a hug and a kiss.
All in all, I think it's a really nice ritual and has always been one of my favorite parts of xmas eve.
CATHOLIC...as is all the fish on Xmas eve....though more italian than polish...polish would just do no meat...prolly pierogies etcWafer that hasn't been blessed, is my understanding. My grandmother always get some every xmas, usually with some xmas design stamped into it. She's Catholic, so I suppose it's probably Catholic host (definitely doesn't taste like the bits of Adventist "bread" my mom would sneak me), but I don't know if it's a Catholic tradition, an Italian one, or a Polish one.
We have a tradition where the oldestperson starts with it and says a few words. Glad to have people there, remembering those who couldn't be, grateful for what you have, same time next year, blah blah blah. Then she'll take it and go to someone and greet them and wish them merry xmas and blah blah blah, and they'll break off part of it, and kiss each other. And then each will turn and do the same thing with someone else. So, by the end, you end up having a handful of crumbs that everyone in the room has touched (you're supposed to eat it, which is the only part of the ritual that squicks me out a bit), and you've said a few words to everyone, and given everyone a hug and a kiss.
All in all, I think it's a really nice ritual and has always been one of my favorite parts of xmas eve. It's always been marred somewhat, though, by my mom's grumbling and scowling throughout it. (Religious whatnot.) *shrug* It used to bother me, but now I don't let it.
dunno what we will do with extended family yet...but we will leave on christmas for a trip to dh's relatives on the way to a 10 day carribean cruise...celebrity..... can't wait