How to overcome the emotion trap of AT?

[WhiskeyPapa]

Whatever you do, don't talk to them. Having consistently perfect tandas is one thing, discovering you also like them as people is another. It might be difficult to untangle yourself from that.

Look, I think conversations tête-à-tête in a dark corner are probably OK.... but whatever you do avoid her pleas to step out for coffeee

 

[Brummbaer]

There are situations where body says yes, but mind not.

Is this the blood supply to brain problem?

There are some situations where one constant partner is more than sufficient and adequate (when you engage the brain). Best avoid the coffee afterwards.

 

[itwillhappen]

Whatever you do, don't talk to them. Having consistently perfect tandas is one thing, discovering you also like them as people is another. It might be difficult to untangle yourself from that.

That's kind of rude, isn't it? I answer to questions at least the same as I would during a police interrogation: name, age, place of birth, place of residence.

 

[Mladenac]

Some societies are focused more on dancing and some on socializing.

 

[nagamiki]

Hi,
Thank you all very much for your reply and advice.
I have some update here that I eventually find a way to solve this trap after one month.
I ask the girl if she also enjoy dance with me and if she would like to be my constant dance partner, and she said Yes.
So now we go to practica together, we go to milonga together and sometimes we have dinner together

 

[WhiskeyPapa]

Well, well...
Just avoid the after dinner coffee!!!

 

[Cabbit]

Well, well...
Just avoid the after dinner coffee!!!

But a drink or two after the afterparty are still okay, right?