Interesting article

Hespera

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I found a very interesting article about Royal Air Force Officers taking mandatory dancing lessons. My husband is a Navy Reserve Officer, and we have noticed that very few officers know how to dance. It may not be necessary to know how to dance in the U.S., but many officers get stationed in Europe where balls with formal dancing are still very much a part of social life.

Here is the link:
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_qn4161/is_19981108/ai_n14483903

EXCLUSIVE RUPERT HAMER RAF CHIEFS have been given a new mission - to turn Britain's top guns into experts in the tango and foxtrot.
Officer trainees are keeping eyes right and best feet forward as they glide their way through ballroom dancing lessons.
A shortage of women means that sometimes men have to dance cheek to cheek during the hour-and-a-half weekly sessions. But that hasn't put them off. In fact some dancers are planning to form a team called Tango Foxtrot. The classes - held every Monday night at the RAF College at Cranwell, Lincolnshire - are part of a push to turn young guns into gentlemen.
Training officers also drill the chaps in the do's and don'ts of formal dress, how to behave in front of women, wine tasting and the finer points of our culture - including trips to the ballet and opera.
A senior RAF officer said: "It all began when cadets went to a mayor's ball and hadn't a clue what to do when the band played a waltz.
"The then chief of the Air Staff stepped in and ordered ballroom dancing lessons to be added to the curriculum.
"It is part of a general programme to improve the social skills of officer cadets.
"Officers are encouraged to bring along their partners or wives. Sometimes there is a shortage of women so the men have to dance with each other.
"There was some initial opposition but classes have become extremely popular. A decision has now been taken to find a suitable competition to enter."
The base has hired ballroom instructor Jennifer Brown, who runs her own dance school in Lincoln. As many as 50 officer cadets attend her classes in a lecture hall on the base.
"There is a lot of talent among the young officers," Jennifer, 48, said.
"They are very enthusiastic, particularly for the Latin dances, which can be quite steamy. We have not entered a competition as of yet but they certainly have the ability."
The Sunday Mirror revealed earlier this year that Army officers were being schooled in how to cut cheese and which knife and fork to use during formal meals.
RAF spokesman Squadron Leader Tom Rounds said training was given in the social skills required of an officer and a gentleman. Each cadet has to go through a series of lectures on RAF tradition, etiquette and social responsibilities.
He said: "It's part of the life that you live as an officer in the RAF.
"Lessons are given on how to treat a lady. For example, if you are walking along the street the man always places himself on the kerb side. Historically, I think it's so the man was killed by any passing horses rather than the woman.
"It's how to tie bow ties or the routine of being a house guest. They are taught to pass the port to the left after dinner and not to smoke until after the loyal toast.
"There are trips to the local opera house and wine-tasting evenings - to help officers choose the right wines.
"What colour shoes to wear with the suit and how to match ties are all on the agenda. Quite a lot of our young people have never been away from home. They are the kinds of things that mum has always done for them.
"Frankly, life is a bit more casual now. It would be fair to say young people need these courses more than they did 20 years ago."
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I wish the schools and such here institued it across the board. Again ... what IS so wrong with getting back to the old world charm and manners and such? Where a lady knew how to behave as such and a man was a gentleman. I think I was born in the wrong era. LOL
 
I'd be interested in what they have to say about cutting cheese---the only social grace I know is to blame the dog---but in this age of political correctness and equality, I'm perfectly willing to let women be killed by passing horses.
 
lmao! My 10-year old daughter was at a birthday party and all the kids were sitting at the table having cake and she let one slip and then blamed the boy at the table most likely to have done it. She fessed up later...but everyone bought it.
 
I wish the schools and such here institued it across the board. Again ... what IS so wrong with getting back to the old world charm and manners and such? Where a lady knew how to behave as such and a man was a gentleman. I think I was born in the wrong era. LOL

Perhaps we are long-lost twins?:p I very much agree that the loss of decorum is lamentable.
I just found out that the US Naval Academy has cut ballroom dancing for the plebes (freshmen)... Get ready for the next generation that is clueless on the dance floor and overwhelmed by a simple waltz tune as mentioned in the article.
 
Kerbside ??

In the US the lady now walks curbside and the gentleman walks closer to the nasty blind alleys. Orignally, the gentleman walked curbside so the lady would not be splattered with mud. Now the gentleman walks closer to the alleys to deter muggers.

So much for changes in city life.

But it is only right that the military should be training the Leaders of tomorrow!:rolleyes:
 
I wish the schools and such here institued it across the board. Again ... what IS so wrong with getting back to the old world charm and manners and such? Where a lady knew how to behave as such and a man was a gentleman. I think I was born in the wrong era. LOL


most of us dancers think like that. ;)it is so rare to see a man whom will open a door to a lady, or when he dance with her, that he not leave her on the floor but bring her to her table .......

sometimes when i see how young people and teenagers are behaving, i just ask my self do those kids have parents. :(
 
Interesting article. My Grandmother went to an Etiquette school. I remember many instances of my Aunt and parents teaching me how to sit at a dinner table, not to cross my legs when eating, how to eat soup properly by taking the spoon away from you, then brushing it across the bowl as to not have any dripping from it as we ate. How to hold a fork and knife properly when eating etc.... Drove me crazy in my school ages. Things also included were proper grooming, language and volume of voice, never to raise it but to lower it when angered. This would help ensure making a proper "Young Lady".

Yet note, to this day it bugs me to see milk pouring off a spoon for cereal or the liquid from soup dropping of the spoon when someone is about to put it to their mouth. Dropping the voice does wonders when needing to discipline children.
 
Perhaps we are long-lost twins?:p I very much agree that the loss of decorum is lamentable.
I just found out that the US Naval Academy has cut ballroom dancing for the plebes (freshmen)... Get ready for the next generation that is clueless on the dance floor and overwhelmed by a simple waltz tune as mentioned in the article.

If they cut the dancing for freshmen, are the lessons still given to upperclassmen, I wonder?

I also lament the loss of manners. Not that I want to live like a Victorian all the time in life, but knowing proper behavior is important. To me, it's a way of showing respect to others and making them feel comfortable to be around you.

That article was really cute.
 
If they cut the dancing for freshmen, are the lessons still given to upperclassmen, I wonder?

No, I am afraid dancing lessons were discontinued for everybody. There is still a dance club (entirely optional), but the mandatory classes that instilled basic skills in everybody are gone.
 

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