Cruel but fair. Totnesia is a strange land of multicoloured shoes and Peruvian peasant hats which does tend to be reflected in the events organised in that area. They're fun though and there's no obligation to enter into the communal dining and washing up experience. Personally, when I go to the Mango I find my own fodder - the Riverford farm shop is only 5 minutes drive away and they do awesome ham & leek and smoked chicken tarts, demon chocolate cake and all manner of other good things. There are a multitude of B&Bs in the area and some reasonable pubs for food, though the Sea Trout in Staverton isn't quite as good as it was. Having said that, the "Mango community spirit model" does have it's attractions despite my aversion to washing up - I really don't mind it at Bramshaw.
Tara & Fernando have moved away from the Mango "communal feeding" model. You find your own grub at the Oldway Mansion events and the Christmas "Feast" and small group intensive workshops are catered.
So David, I strongly recommend that you put your Norf Lundin prejudices aside and drag your bones into deepest, darkest Devon. Book into a decent pub/hotel and come and dance with us.