Question For The Women

Yeah, accidental contact is no big deal. I've accidently brushed against butts and well, below belt buckles. It's obvious if it's accidental. Leading by bra strap is not accidental though, it's just.... WEIRD.
 
lol my coach once accidentally grabbed my boob while we were both standing still!! he went to put his hand on my shoulder while we were talking and i turned a little and *boop* direct boob grab!! lol we both just stood there for a few seconds staring at his hand and not quite believing what had just happened... then he removed his hand and kept talking like nothing had happened!!! LOL i was dying trying not to laugh!!!!
 
I've accidently grabbed things I probably shouldn't have before, and there's plenty of occasions that my partner and are are in contact, so to speak.

Accidently or as part of the dancing, it's no big deal, we're comfortable enough with one another that there's no point in being shy.

On the other hand, those kinds of things are beyond the scope of dancing with anyone else, and I certainly don't think playing with a woman's bra strap is a wise move.
 
I've mentioned before about accidentally getting the men right in the crotch when I would bring my hand around after a spin. I would be totally red-faced about it but geez, the men sure would race to get up to dance with me. I think they were not as happy as I was when I got my hand under control. I've been given the full on boob grab often enough but I know it has been an accident so no big deal.

I think if the guy leads you by the bra strap then you should follow by hanging onto his underwear.
 
Rugby said:
I've mentioned before about accidentally getting the men right in the crotch when I would bring my hand around after a spin. I would be totally red-faced about it but geez, the men sure would race to get up to dance with me. I think they were not as happy as I was when I got my hand under control. I've been given the full on boob grab often enough but I know it has been an accident so no big deal.

I think if the guy leads you by the bra strap then you should follow by hanging onto his underwear.
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Dancingisfun said:
Hi. I was just wondering what you would do if a partner in class you were dancing with pulled on the back of your bra strap to try and lead you. Would you just go with the flow and not react? How would you handle this. Thanks.
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:shock: Hmmm, well.... I would slap him as an auto reaction! No in all seriousness, that's very inappropriate. I'd say something for sure.
 
Scorpio said:
I know some guys who would think that was funny and possibly even flirtatious.
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I don't recall being pulled by my bra as cute, nor flattering. So if there are guys doing that out there, please stop. This is not flirtatious and highly doubtful it was accidental. It'll be interesting to see how you dealt with this, Dancingisfun.
 
Yeah, I don't get the funny/flirtatious. This isn't middle school where bra-snapping seems to be a rite of passage of some bizarre sort.
 
Sometimes guys just need to grab something. I often pull Natasha's clothes because I might have missed her hand or shoulder.
 
Peaches said:
"That is not a handle."
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LOL those are the exact words I told my partner one day in practice when he was supposed to help me get out of this split in front of him but had grabbed my boob instead of under my arms... and just used my boob as extra leverage to get me out of the split... First of all, OW.. second of all, not a handle LMFAO!!!! Luckily, by that point we were comfortable enough with each other that we could laugh about it...
 
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