sides of you

jenn

jenn

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how many sides of you are there? for example, theres the side that the people you work with see...the side your family sees...your spouse/g or bfriend...friends outside dance...friends (aquaintances) at dances...etc.

what are these sides of you like?

do you change your personality/actions (much) depending on who youre around?
 
My front side is pretty interesting, I have a nice smile and the ladies seem to like my beard. The backside doesn't get as much attention as I'd like...and my left and right are good too. :lol: :D :lol:
 
Sagitta said:
Yes. What about u?
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oh, yessss...but of course. :wink:

i ll have to get back to this one (i have to get back to class). plus, i wanna hear some answers first. =P
 
I am pretty much the same in all of my "lives", be it work, friendships, dancing; the only exception is that I don't curse at church :lol:
 
scorpionguy said:
My front side is pretty interesting, I have a nice smile and the ladies seem to like my beard. The backside doesn't get as much attention as I'd like...and my left and right are good too. :lol: :D :lol:
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:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:



As for the question at hand....Im always me. I dont change for anyone, Im a "what you see is what you get" kinda girl.
 
Different situations, different sides. Serious when I need to, playful when it's appropriate, etc. It's not jst about who I'm with, but also what I'm doing.

How many are impossible to say, would depend on how you count.
 
I'm all about connecting with someone. So I try to find some part of myself that can relate with the person I'm with at the moment. However it has to be genuine for me. I'm a lousy faker. So if some part of me starts to feel betrayed then I have to back off a bit until I am honestly connecting. I'll take a genuine low connction over a non-genuine connection any day of the week. This is when I'm at my best.

Now when I'm at my worst I don't back off to be genuine and I betray some part of me. This never works. I frustrate myself and other people run away (rightly). I am learning to be careful about this.
 
tacad said:
I'm a lousy faker.
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I wouldn't know how to fake a personality. Never done it. Never tried it. Never crosses my mind. I am who I am, a person with different sides to his personality. :shock:
 
tacad said:
I'm all about connecting with someone. So I try to find some part of myself that can relate with the person I'm with at the moment. However it has to be genuine for me. I'm a lousy faker.
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This is me, tacad describes it so perfectly.
 
motardmom said:
tacad said:
I'm all about connecting with someone. So I try to find some part of myself that can relate with the person I'm with at the moment. However it has to be genuine for me. I'm a lousy faker.
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This is me, tacad describes it so perfectly.
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Ditto. It's amazing how many people come away from interactions with me surprised at how much we are alike. I do try to find common ground with every person I talk to. So how many sides is that? Probably quite a few. :wink:
 
I have many sides to myself...and if I shared what they are then I wouldn't be able to be so sneaky! :lol:

Suffice to say, all the sides are but one and the same...so a person with true discernment can easily see the real me...and some have said that I may be hiding on purpose to see who's really paying attention. :eyebrow:

I have no idea what they are talking about though! :mrgreen:
 
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