Slow dancing at homecoming

gobstopper89

New Member
Hey....just curious about something. Everytime i end up slow dancing with a girl, i never know if i should talk. And if so what i should talk about. Other than the usual "you look so beautiful" comment that im sure most guys always use. Any advice? Thanks guys!
 
I'm beginning to think this forum needs a whole new topic for all the Homecoming-related questions people have been asking!
 
Katarzyna said:
Maybe someone should start a whole section, not just a sticky...

Yeah, section, topic, whatever those parts of DF are called, that's what I meant. And put it right at the top, above "Dance Articles."
 
but these threads only show up during homecoming season - maybe we should have a highlighted link and put it on the front page during Sept/Oct??
 
lynn said:
but these threads only show up during homecoming season

Lynn's right, of course. I was being a bit satirical.

I wonder if we'll get another rash of messages around the time of the Christmas dance, and then again at prom time (I just started using DF last summer).
 
maybe around graduation/prom time - Christmas shouldn't be so bad....

but seriously, i think these people are simply looking for links to a site where they can get free videos - it's the best and quickest way to learn, there's no way you can learn how to dance from a couple of paragraphs even if we put break down the actions
 
oh, sorry, i would think anything that fit the general atmostphere??

btw, if the music is very loud, it's best not to talk, trying to yell over the music is not exactly a good idea.
 
Is it really more per season? It seems like there are always people coming through wanting to know how to grind, or dance etc.

Heres a hint guys: At prom and school dances, dont dance, hang out by the food table ad eat all night. Im a dancer, and thats what I do :)
 
Here's a little tip:

Don't flatter too much or too imaginitively.....unless you're William Shakespeare you won't sound anything other than cheesy and insincere. One year, my date told me that I had eyes like pools of amber and I laughed for like half an hour.

Just talk about something normal, something you have in common. I've always found music and movies to be pretty safe topics. So is school, but that's kind of boring. For homecoming dances "so what did you do over the summer?" works pretty well. If the music is loud, though, don't talk. Also don't talk if you ate something garlic-y for dinner.
 
The good thing with the kind of dancing that goes on at school dances is that you CAN chat a little. If you've just learned or ARE learning "actual dancing", I know that I simply CANT talk- I'm too busy doing stuff wrong:lol:
 

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