opendoor
Forum Master
When I spoke of the short memory of the tango scene, I meant something quite different: you won't be forgotten as an individual, but as a dancer. If you dance infrequently or have taken long breaks, you'll be functionally forgotten. The attitude of followers towards you is suddenly completely different: before, everyone wanted to integrate you into their networks. If you no longer reliably show up at the milongas, you'll be immediately marginalized. You will be forgotten, even though all the details of your life will remain in their memory.I've had absences.. I've never had a "Who are you again?" moment in my 13+ years of tango.. ..say things like, "Hi, JiT! Remember me? I'm Katerina from Athens. We danced once in 2018, at that ball in the old theatre. How is your cat?