tangonuevo
New Member
That would be true. She would be interfering with the dance I might be trying to give her. However, I prefer not to "dance her", to give her my dance. I prefer instead that we really bring our dances to each other....
I do want my partner to bring me a dance, and I do pay attention to what she's doing, but if she was doing as much as you suggest, I would consider that she was interfering with the dance I was trying to give her.
In CE, which we dance a lot, she can also control the lead by how she uses the floor. For example, if I start to lead an ocho cortada, does she power into it? Or does she slow me down? And once I have stepped her forward right then side left, does she become heavy, telling me she doesn't want to go to the usual resolution (the cross)? Perhaps she powered onto her left foot in the side step, transferring her weight and opening the door for me to do something entirely different than I may have had in mind? Etc.
Yes, this could simply be "bad following", but with a sensitive high level follow, it could be her giving voice in such a manner that she doesn't ignore my lead, but rather reinterprets it. And even if it is "bad following", it is a real opportunity to learn as a lead how to have a conversation.