Tandem charleston still makes me frustrated. If we agree to do it, or if I conciosly realise that this is a situation where I might be led into tandem charleston (we just failed in once and now my right hand is in his left, looks like the setup for another try) then it works fine. Most of the time when I social dance, though, I am not in "move recognition mode". I have no time for that. Of the moves I follow when social dancing I have been formally taught a minor part; if I tried to social dance based on the recognition of moves I'd be lost.
When we fail to start the tandem charleston several times I occasionallys get these comments from the guy like "oh, I thougth you had done that one before" or "you obviously have no clue about this one". Then I usually feel like "hey, I have no clue about more than half of the moves I follow. Still, I follow them. Are you sure you can lead this move? I doubt it" but of course I don't say that. I am not sure how much my not getting into tandem charleston is my fault, and how much the leaders'. I do get into tandem charleston without conciously thinking about tandem charleston sometimes, but most of the times not. As I already said, I have this feeling that many people around here are taught tandem charleston in a stage where they base their dancing more or less on "move recognition", as their lead/follow skills are not yet that great. Otherwise, I do not see how it is possible that some leaders try and do tandem charleston while keeping my hands completely still, and being surprised when I don't make it! You see, myself I more or less skipped this "dancing by move recognition" stage.
Why this obsession with tandem charleston in the first place? Well... I plan to take classes at another place, having two schools to pick classes from. They are much bigger on lindy, and offer way more classes. There will be a little test where they decide in what level to place us people from outside; their own students are judged in the end of each course if they are allowed to proceed to next level or not. From their description of their levels of courses, I realise that if I "can not do" tandem charleston, if I look like "she has not done it" I will probably be put in a lower level class than I actually deserve - and I don't suppose I will be dancing with very great leaders during this test. Am I aiming higher than I deserve? Maybe, but I don't think do. I have been spending the last four or five months of classes with people generally below my level and I feel it is time for a change.
Probably, there is also a part explanation involving that I find it slightly uncomfortable having my dance partner behind me, in slightly bent over-position. Maybe some of you remember me saying that the ability of a leader I value the most, is the ability to make me trust him. Quite possibly I get into tandem charleston automatically with the leaders I really trust, but not with the rest. In a way, on the social dance floor I don't mind at all not getting into tandem charleston, as long as the leaders don't complain and try to "teach" me how to do it. But for that test...
I wonder what it is I need to do. Hardwire the charleston arm swings, by doing more charleston on my own? Get a training partner and practise tandem charleston so this individual move, from the entrance to the actual start of the charleston, is a little package as hardwired in my brain as the charleston itself? Probably both would be good. Training in doing a little more "move recognition" while dancing will probably hamper my social dancing, but getting me better prepared for this test. Priorities...
Indeed, taking this lower level course will probably make me fit to manage tandem charleston with the leads taught at the same place. I kind of doubt that should have to take a six lessons course, though.