Ask questions, meet dancers, and be part of the conversation.
tj said:As a salsero thru and thru - one thing that I do admire about the Ballroom events that I have attended (I could count 'em on one hand, actually.) The people (while it was an older crowd) were more genuinely friendly than what I typically get from the salsa club scene.
And as stated before to compare me, as an instructor at work or competitor at work, to people on a Saturday night social dancing in a bar, isn't very accurate.
You said the key word...Pro's. Those are the only people who would have the time to be seriously involved in more than one scene.pygmalion said:Actually, I know a few pros who manage to bridge the gap. So I suspect that it's as much a matter of having the time to become entrenched in a dance scene as anything else. Those of us generalists who have day jobs only have enough "spare" time to pick one or two dance disciplines. But people who do it for a living sometimes (quite successfully) pick more than one.
Getting entrenched in a scene takes quite a bit of time and effort. 8)
youngsta said:I don't think many of the "generalists" can say they are truly entrenched in more than one of the dance cultures.
No worries! I still wub youuuuu!!delamusica said:Good responses people! I'm sorry if I came off as being too general about the "salsa people" - I was pretty tired and grumpy when I read the post I was responding to, and probably over did it a bit.But the point remains, and I think some of you have said some good things. Thanks!
youngsta said:No worries! I still wub youuuuu!!delamusica said:Good responses people! I'm sorry if I came off as being too general about the "salsa people" - I was pretty tired and grumpy when I read the post I was responding to, and probably over did it a bit.But the point remains, and I think some of you have said some good things. Thanks!
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msjanemas said:Pacion:
Incidentally, I cannot say hand on heart that I have never seen anyone at a Ballroom dancing social openly chewing gum (and by openly, I mean mouth open chewing :shock: ). Perhaps one of the ballroom dancers can help out here. But I have seen it several times at salsa/mambo events. :roll: Maybe I am getting "old" :lol: but that to me is a no, NO! :evil:
JM:
No your not old, just picky! Were they loud? Did they dress with bad taste? Were they poor or uneducated? Come on, really.
Pacion said:msjanemas said:Pacion:
Incidentally, I cannot say hand on heart that I have never seen anyone at a Ballroom dancing social openly chewing gum (and by openly, I mean mouth open chewing :shock: ). Perhaps one of the ballroom dancers can help out here. But I have seen it several times at salsa/mambo events. :roll: Maybe I am getting "old" :lol: but that to me is a no, NO! :evil:
JM:
No your not old, just picky! Were they loud? Did they dress with bad taste? Were they poor or uneducated? Come on, really.
:shock: Picky? Moi! Guilty as charged officer. 8) Should I call my lawyer now or should we just go straight to the verdict :wink: :lol: Just so that you know, SalsaLawyer is on retainer so just know who you are up against :wink::lol:
Unless your a "Monkey driving a Buick" I think I can win with him on your side! lol!
JM, I am a salsa dancer/lover so please look at what I have written from the perspective of a salsa lover, not someone from the "ballroom camp" who is out to dis salsa lovers/dancers. :?
Re the chewing gum thing, just picture this okay? I am dancing, trying to build the connection with my dance partner, trying to look at his eyes which also involves having a peripheral vision of his face and what do I see? Cheek muscles going a mile a minute, mouth wide open. How romantic/sensual is that!!! :shock: :lol: (Romantic being in the sense of what is happening on the dancefloor and not any illusions of things happening off the dancefloor. :wink: )
Then tell him this: "If you don't remove your gum, I'll have to decline". Carry some tick tac's with you to offer an option. Orrrr a lolipop!
Aside from how I might feel, also going through my head is the possibility of him choking on the chewing gum and I find that I can't concentrate on enjoying the dance - instead I am worrying about his well being :roll: :?
I think I also posted on another thread a few weeks ago that I was at a salsa venue and someone had chosen to dispose of their chewing gum on the dancefloor :shock: Understandably the guy whose shoe "found it" was far from amused. Thankfully, I think he was wearing rubber or leather soles - if he was wearing suede, the gum probably would have ruined his shoe.
Maybe Salsa Clubs should insist on no gum chewing. It's not a bad idea don't you think?
I too do chew gum occassionally, but I just make sure and dispose of it carefully.
I don't chew gum. I'm afraid my fillings may come out! lol! Anyway what are you doing dancing with a boy that chews gum? How old is he? lol!