What in the world do I do?

dirtbiker2170

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So, I'm a 20 year old male and do not know the FIRST thing about dancing. The only type of dance club that I've been to is my high school prom, but all they did there was grind with whoever they could find (which was weird to see freshman do). Anyway, how to most 20 year olds dance these days, both solo and couple? Like I said, I don't know the first thing; the only "dancing" I've ever really done is the dancing game at the arcade machine with the four arrows. I'm actually pretty good at that now, so I guess that means I at least have SOME type of rhythm. Please help.. thanks!
 
welcome...dirtbiker...I reccomend looking for a dance studio in the yellow pages...ask if they teach parnter dancing...good luck
 
ANY sort of partner dance style will help you. Usually we reccomend salsa (it's all the rage pretty much everywhere) and ballroom dancing (helps your posture and foot coordination). As for solo dances, hip hop is the most obvious choice, as well as modern/jazz. Look around (the adresses of the studios aren't going to land on your lap ;)), find something within your budget and to your liking and stick to it. You will see improvement, seriously.
Good luck and don't hesitate to come back to us for more info/help.

T_E
 
How much do these "studios" usually cost? I'm a poor college student with not TOO much time on my hands... Also, do people in my situation go to these? It sounds to me like a dance studio would be where experienced people might go. Do these studios usually teach groups at a time as well? I'd just hate to be embarassed by my complete inability to dance when I start off if everybody else isn't starting off where I am... :)
 
nope... they teach group classes and groups are usually affordable...sure they will try to sell you expensive privates...but you can just take the groups...at our studio that's 8 bucks....every studio has beginners
 
Do people my age usually go to these things? All the websites I've visited for the places around here seem to have people aged 40+... It might make me seem out of place. How much to private lessons usually go for? I do horribly with things that aren't explained exactly to me... I'd really like some one-on-one advice. (I know, I'm picky) :)
 
well sure most folks are older....they have more money...but there are teenagers...and how badly do you want to learn?...sometimes ya gotta move out of your comfort zone...a privat ecould run you 30 bucks for a half hour 60 -80 for and hour.....you need to check because these things vary greatly...call or stop in somewhere...you will be warmly welcomed if folks know what they are doing...
 
Studios have students of all levels, but certain lots of beginners. There are group lessons and privates -- group lessons are common, but don't address particular problems you may be having, so privates are used for that. Of course group lessons cost less, but privates can prove more cost effective in terms of solving a particular problem or learning a particular move. Cost varies, but I'm used to group lessons for $10 to $14 per hour (cost may also vary widely by geographical region, so take that with a grain of salt). Also, I tend towards independent studios instead of chains like Arthur Murray -- too many stories of high-pressure sales in chain studios.

But hey, you say you're in college? Check the PE and Dance departments for social dance classes: ballroom, salsa, swing, etc. Not only will you learn to dance, but you'll also get college credit and take care of some of your general-ed (in my day, PE was required, so ballroom took care of that for two semesters). Or check with student services to see if there's a social dance club on campus; such clubs usually also offer instruction for new dancers, plus they'll have dances where you'll get to put some of that instruction into practice.

And don't be embarassed about being new. We all remember all too well when we were new. When we watch the new people, we're thinking "Hurray! More people to dance with!" and so we want to encourage you and help you learn.


PS
fascination just reminded me about the range of ages in studios. Certainly there are a lot of older people. In particular, I'm noticing a lot of "middle-aged" beginners (my own age demographic) because couples are either finally able to start dancing now that their kids are older and moving out on their own, as well as the singles created by the burgeoning divorce rate around the age of 50 (again, my own demographic). But there are also younger people as well. For example, I tend to see a generally younger crowd in salsa and East Coast Swing/Lindy and an older crowd in ballroom and West Coast Swing, but there is still a wide range of ages in all groups.

If age is a concern of yours, then again social dance resources at school would be worth checking out.
 
dirtbiker2170 said:
Do people my age usually go to these things? All the websites I've visited for the places around here seem to have people aged 40+... It might make me seem out of place. How much to private lessons usually go for? I do horribly with things that aren't explained exactly to me... I'd really like some one-on-one advice. (I know, I'm picky) :)

Studios market to middleagers because they have the disposable income. However, the teachers are usually your age or slightly older, so you'll find that you will not be so out of place with them. Additionally, many studios covet the younger dancer even as they market to the middleaged dancer, so you might even find a studio that supprts you in more ways thatn you can imagine - trading work for lessons for example.

Private lessons are FULL of detail - technique is whay you are looking for here.

Finally, don't discount the older dancer - remember, they might have been younger than you when they started, which might translate into many years of quality dancing (after all, when dancers get older, they continue dancing). Also, as a beginner, beginners at any age are your peers...
 
dirtbiker2170 said:
How much do these "studios" usually cost? I'm a poor college student with not TOO much time on my hands... Also, do people in my situation go to these? It sounds to me like a dance studio would be where experienced people might go. Do these studios usually teach groups at a time as well? I'd just hate to be embarassed by my complete inability to dance when I start off if everybody else isn't starting off where I am... :)

I knew nothing about dance before I started going to my studio. Most studios have a beginner's class and/or package. Ask what deals they have for college students too!
 
Hey dirtbiker, a question for you....what are you trying to accomplish in dancing? Would you like to learn to dance competitively? Would you like to learn to dance to go out with friends socially? Are you just looking for something new to try? Are you interested in a specific type of dance (like salsa or argentine tango or perhaps just freestyling)?

Please let us know so we can give you more specific advice.

In the meantime, I agree with DWise1 - if you are indeed a poor college student, many colleges have dance classes that you can sign up for. Some of the larger colleges have ballroom teams if that is something you're interested in. The dance department is great if you want to try some of the more "structured" dances....

Again, let us know what you're interested in so we can help!
 
Our studio has dancers of all ages and levels. Some are young and advanced and some are older and beginners. They cater to all and everyone has a great time.
 

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