Ampster
Active Member
I totally understand and agree!
My boyfriend and I do practice feeling each other (hah!) and connecting this way. That's exactly why we're looking at Argentine... we like to mess around at socials, making up steps and the like, in a very close frame - similar (I think!) to Argentine. We're actually more successful with int/continuity foxtrot, because it has more changes in position where we can feel each others' weight change. We try to do the same thing with tango, but the ballroom tango steps we know seem to be a little too flashy.
So, yeah, this is exactly why I'm looking for something a little more fast-paced. From the start, but fast-paced. I've had some bad experiences with ballroom classes where we end up learning 1-2 steps in an hour and little to no technique, no connection, followers just backleading or leading themselves and everyone just looking to get through the pattern...
Most intro classes I've attended focus on just getting through the steps, and worrying about connection and technique once they've learned to alternate feet and not go clomping around flat-footed... the way I'm sure I was when I startedBut that's why I'm looking for something more fast-paced. But hey, maybe the intro classes I've been to in the past just stink.
dbk:
Here are some pieces of advice from me. It's more geared towards the lead, but should help you understand better.
I'm including links to my blog as there is so much to learn in AT:
- Basics that beginners need to know
- What Argentine tango leaders should know
- My meanderings through tango music
- The intricacy of simplicity
There's a lot more, so please feel free to browse. Don't make the mistakes I've made.