itwillhappen
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There is a lot more to it than that: a focus on performance and effectivity; shared values and knowledge, often documented by a similar upbringing; some common codes.No that's conformity. Elitism is intentional exclusion of others simply because they are others, regardless of their skills or abilities. It's a form of social exclusivity. Has nothing to do with how you dance, really (even in tango).
The most important tool for excluding people is mirada/cabeceo; an effective and quick form of communication that outsiders find difficult to get involved in. And then tandas, i.e. keeping the time window for choosing a dance partner as short as possible so that undesirable people cannot sabotage your own goals.
It is quite easy to behave egalitarian at a festival. You sit down at a table, chat for a while, ask the women at the table if they would like to dance, and sometimes tap the women at the next table on the shoulder. At some point you go out for something to eat or drink and sit down at another table. At the end you can still finish the wine bottles and have a few jokes with strangers at the bar.
But you can also behave elitistly at a festival, and many of my dance partners really like that. So I move my chair a bit away from the table, scan the room, remember previous events, consider networks, weigh up opportunities, move when "idiots" block my line of sight, and afterwards I don't block my dance partner with unnecessary chatter.
At a milonga you usually have a choice, but there are also some with a more or less clear profile.
At an encuentro or marathon almost all participants behave in an elitist manner.
So there are reasons why outsiders consider the tango sociotope to be elitist.
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. And so my opinion has to be positive.