ArbeeNYC
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The definition in the link is incorrect and the problem is that it has been used repeatedly in that incorrect sense. Traditionally, and more accurately, a milonguero is a habitué of the milonga. Someone who went regularly (if not daily) to his local place of dance. It did not originally refer to a way of dancing. It later became associated, by extension, with the kind of dancing practiced in those (mostly) downtown milongas. Learning tango (especially today), dancing tango, dancing traditionally, does not *make* you a milonguero. Let us also be mindful of the fact that, at one time, the word had certain negative connotations. It had nothing to do with dress codes (other than the fact that in the '30s and '40s men customarily wore suits). The term does not exist outside Buenos Aires in any meaningful way. In fact, I don't think it can even be used meaningfully today in B.A., unless you're referring to the older generation of dancers, some of whom still remain.Simplistically, as @JournalInTime said:
I mean, I know the code some, and I'm still not sure whether when an 84-year-old Argentine woman told me, "Tu es un vrai milonguero!" (yes, in French, not Spanish) , she meant "You're a devoted tango dancer," "You're a bum who dances and ogles girls instead of working," or some other thing.
or, in some more detail, here
And, perhaps today, as a perjorative term for the affectation some apply to their dress code and attitude to dancing AT in their perception of the 'one true way', as they hold it was once done in BsAs and ought to be continued forevermore.
Or maybe, outside Argentina, as someone (male or female), who got the AT bug, learnt, and goes to some place for an evening event called a 'milonga' instead of drinking and partying with their mates.
Yes, the old meanings exist in historical reference, but in language new meanings evolve, particularly with loan words, and become common (?) usage.