jantango
Well-Known Member
Well i got my first cabeceo from a man entering the line of dance. worked nicely, just like Murat Erdemsel described....
I don't know if Erdemsel has danced at a milonga in BsAs. His video is useful for men to a point. What he shows what may occur at festivals, but not what is done in BsAs. This eye contact is something we all do in daily life when crossing a street or merging with traffic on the road.
Men position themselves on the edge or corner of the floor to protect the woman from on-coming traffic as she enters the floor. They don't make eye contact with the men in the rear. They merge gently among others on the floor.
When it's a couple entering together, the woman goes first and positions herself just in front of the tables on the edge of the floor with her back to the wall. The man joins her and facing the wall, waiting for space to enter the flow of traffic on the floor to the left. Awareness is what it's about. There is no nodding being done.
Erdemsel has a good idea which may even result in better floorcraft and use of the cabeceo.