It seems to me that if you are trying to dance milonguero, the embrace is not off center. Even if the embrace is off-center, it shouldn't affect your balance unless you are doing something like leaning to your right by bending sideways at the waist..
but if the woman is off to my right instead of straight on...well, it's a BIG change! ..and yes the balance is different... I've never seen a woman lead as well as any average man..probably a fault of the breasts..as in throwing a baseball.:together: