ArbeeNYC
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Interesting about the 10-year span. Could be. I know it has taken me several years to get comfortable with the dance and turn it into something that feels like a natural extension of my body. It's generally said that receptive followers can learn in a much shorter period of time (often depends on age and fitness, well, same with leading I guess).In my personal experience it takes about a decade or more before majority of dancers start appreciating that dancing is more than physical movement. When I started standard advise was at least a year of training before average man could lead, navigate and dance at a milonga. At some minimal acceptance level. Some teachers said two years if you are lucky. For ladies who wanted to follow it was about half of that.
Five years later I came across new set of teachers that would take the class out for milongas. That is a good practice. It included fresh beginners as well as six month beginners. At least it exposes people to milonga atmosphere, what to expect and where their dancing stands in comparison.
As a zenism I will agree to the statement that “you are a beginner for first twenty years”.
Taking the class to a milonga is a very good idea (also helps the milonga). Only one of my teachers promised to take a beginner class out but we never got around to it. I was clueless the first time I went on my own. If you have any outside milongas in your neighborhood, that can be a good way to get started.