LadyLeader
Forum Master
Umm, aren't you supposed to be leading her steps? You're not doing two separate dances. You guys should be in synch.
I lead the steps when the follower is still in the learning mode but when she has mature musicality and movements she can dance herself.
It is a kind of different perspective. In an orchestra, the violin is doing an independent soundtrack. The base and piano some times totally different track. The orchestra leader will keep the whole song together.
At the beginning stage, the leader has to keep it all together - music,steps,follower - having a kind of orchestra leader role. Later on the song, music playing will have this organizing role. We kind of switch from leader organization to music organization for the couple!