This is a well-discussed subject, however, I am looking for ideas for two specific issues I am struggling with when it comes to finding "one".
I believe that I have a pretty good hang on finding 1 in music when I do it on my own. But I found that I have a hard time when I am on a dance floor. I suspect that it has to do with the two following conditions:
1. Last night I was at a small social dance. Room is small and echo-y, the sound system was not great, and people were talking louder than the music. I think because of that I had a hard time finding the beat. What excercises (other than one below) can I do to handle this particular situation better?
Here is how I'm practicing now:
- open spotify and play my list on 10-second random skip (automatically jumping to a random position in a random song every 10 seconds), while
- playing a "restaurant ambiance" track on youtube while trying to find a beat in each song that comes up.
2. If my partner is off-beat (let's say because *I* put her on that wrong beat), once she is on that wrong beat, I can't seem to find "one" in the song. I suspect that panicking is part of the problem because this problem is exaggerated when I'm leading a Rueda circle. I haven't tried anything to drill this skill. I am looking for suggestions as to how to practice effectively to improve this shortcoming of mine. Here is my idea I am yet to try (I'm looking for feedback on this idea): bring headphones and find beat (randomly skipping songs) in music during the social. If I pretend that everybody is looking at me, I hope I can induce the same panicky feeling thus getting used to it. Closing my eyes and stopping helps but doesn't seem to be too graceful.
As a workaround, for now, I try to find the beat before I invite a partner to dance, this is not ideal, obviously.
I understand that "dancing more" will make me better at this, but let me reiterate, I'm looking for specific drills I can practice.
I believe that I have a pretty good hang on finding 1 in music when I do it on my own. But I found that I have a hard time when I am on a dance floor. I suspect that it has to do with the two following conditions:
1. Last night I was at a small social dance. Room is small and echo-y, the sound system was not great, and people were talking louder than the music. I think because of that I had a hard time finding the beat. What excercises (other than one below) can I do to handle this particular situation better?
Here is how I'm practicing now:
- open spotify and play my list on 10-second random skip (automatically jumping to a random position in a random song every 10 seconds), while
- playing a "restaurant ambiance" track on youtube while trying to find a beat in each song that comes up.
2. If my partner is off-beat (let's say because *I* put her on that wrong beat), once she is on that wrong beat, I can't seem to find "one" in the song. I suspect that panicking is part of the problem because this problem is exaggerated when I'm leading a Rueda circle. I haven't tried anything to drill this skill. I am looking for suggestions as to how to practice effectively to improve this shortcoming of mine. Here is my idea I am yet to try (I'm looking for feedback on this idea): bring headphones and find beat (randomly skipping songs) in music during the social. If I pretend that everybody is looking at me, I hope I can induce the same panicky feeling thus getting used to it. Closing my eyes and stopping helps but doesn't seem to be too graceful.
As a workaround, for now, I try to find the beat before I invite a partner to dance, this is not ideal, obviously.
I understand that "dancing more" will make me better at this, but let me reiterate, I'm looking for specific drills I can practice.
