BrokeForBallroom
New Member
As a relatively new leader myself, I think I find more success in leading when there isn't an expectation of doing a particular routine.
Speaking from the follow's side, this. Following correctly requires paying quite a bit of attention to your leader, so if we are dancing a routine, I'm going to work on another aspect of my dancing instead. If I know a spin turn is next, and I've already decided I'm going to work on my shaping or what have you, I'm probably not paying enough attention to react to a lead fast enough to do the alternate figure correctly. So like Requiem said, make it clear from the beginning that you don't intend to stick to a routine, and you'll probably have more success with leading.