Inside the male mind: Thoughts on body contact, anyone?

chandra said:
You do need to go to bed luh.


Just think about it though, as you go to sleep. Something will click maybe?
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I'll go - in just a few seconds - after we quit talking, and after I've taken a shower.
luh
 
luh said:
i don't get it, i just don't get it. Could someone explain this to me? :?: :?: :?: maybe it's the time - i should go to bed.
luh
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I have no idea what they are talking about either. I read this around noon today, and I am reading it again around 6pm. I thought maybe someones response would give me a clue what they were talking about.

I am guessing I do not understand because of one of two things.
1) I do not do ballroom, I only enjoy watching it, so it might be an inside thing.

2) I am a guy, and I am very bad at reading between the lines when it comes to women. If any women out there can translate the question into man speak, I would appreciate it.
 
Translation:

As a guy, in closed position are you concerned with (and how much are you bothered by) a woman being able to feel your privates through your clothings?
 
diputsnyc said:
luh said:
i don't get it, i just don't get it. Could someone explain this to me? :?: :?: :?: maybe it's the time - i should go to bed.
luh
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I have no idea what they are talking about either. I read this around noon today, and I am reading it again around 6pm. I thought maybe someones response would give me a clue what they were talking about.

I am guessing I do not understand because of one of two things.
1) I do not do ballroom, I only enjoy watching it, so it might be an inside thing.

2) I am a guy, and I am very bad at reading between the lines when it comes to women. If any women out there can translate the question into man speak, I would appreciate it.
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glad i'm not the only one. I tryed to guess out of the answers too. but they are cryptic to me.
Please help us!
luh
 
leftfeetnyc said:
Translation:

As a guy, in closed position are you concerned with (and how much are you bothered by) a woman being able to feel your privates through your clothings?
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holy cow. Am i understanding you right. SHE feeling OUR privates? dangit, that has to be weak pants - that's what i think ;) Or do you mean, WE feeling HER privates? You got to get more clear here. It's getting confusing.
luh
 
leftfeetnyc said:
Translation:

As a guy, in closed position are you concerned with (and how much are you bothered by) a woman being able to feel your privates through your clothings?
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I have no idea how I was supposed to get to this from the original question.

One further question before I answer, because I do not do ballroom. And I hope this is not too graphic for anyone.

Are you saying if a guy gets an erection? Or are you just saying that the guy is that big that you can feel it?
 
diputsnyc said:
leftfeetnyc said:
Translation:

As a guy, in closed position are you concerned with (and how much are you bothered by) a woman being able to feel your privates through your clothings?
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I have no idea how I was supposed to get to this from the original question.

One further question before I answer, because I do not do ballroom. And I hope this is not too graphic for anyone.

Are you saying if a guy gets an erection? Or are you just saying that the guy is that big that you can feel it?
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:eyebrow: I'm interested in this response too. I have had so much body contact that I don't think about these things. It's dancing and that's all, personally.
 
so much for trying to be discreet...okay...here goes...in standard closed hold, in contact, the woman's leg-sometimes thigh-depending upon the move...ends up going right between the mans legs ...and we are encouraged to move right through them...so yes, the leg ends up colliding with anything in its path...okay? :oops: :oops: I am now going to go crawl under a rock and pray that this thread is answered (i.e. A) no, I dance in contact all the time and even though this happens all the time I dont even notice it anymore B) you must be doing something wrong or C) he probably notices but doesnt mind :?) or dies a sudden death
 
i couldn't figure that one really out either. I'm also interested in the answer to the question he had. I never thought about that question - though i don't do ballroom. I really can think of no way they'd be able to feel it, except maybe when you rub your knees together. But even than???
I'll wait for the other answer to reply more.
luh
 
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