Looking at cleavage

I love cleavage... I wear low cut things all the time. And I am not offended by men looking at my boobs. This is why I am buying the special push-up bras and low cut tops in the first place... I know they look and, as long as there is no spit running down their chins, I am perfectly fine with it. I actually like seeing how they cannot hold from looking down. I know many ladies will look down on me for saying so (as obvious if one reads the above replies) but this is who I am and I am not going to pretend or be a hypocrite.
 
fascination said:
...kinda flipped me out...
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Lol, we may be opposites in this regard. As long as I'm under cover, I don't mind being looked at...pro laughs that I'm the only one of his students who doesn't wail "stop looking at my a**!" during lessons, lol.

But despite my earthy humor, I am quite shy and modest in other regards...I cannot imagine wearing a tank top dancing. On others it looks smashing but for me...nope, not there as yet. Workin' on it, tho. I mean, if not now, when??? ;)
 
squirrel said:
I love cleavage... I wear low cut things all the time. And I am not offended by men looking at my boobs. This is why I am buying the special push-up bras and low cut tops in the first place... I know they look and, as long as there is no spit running down their chins, I am perfectly fine with it. I actually like seeing how they cannot hold from looking down. I know many ladies will look down on me for saying so (as obvious if one reads the above replies) but this is who I am and I am not going to pretend or be a hypocrite.
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Luv it. More power to ya. :)
 
heheh, reminds me of the time I was executing a CBL and caught her catching me catching myself staring down this immense cleavage.

"Jeez!" I said. "I thought I was going to fall in!"

Seemed to dispel the tension nicely. Rest of the dance went OK as far as I remember.
 
sweavo said:
heheh, reminds me of the time I was executing a CBL and caught her catching me catching myself staring down this immense cleavage.

"Jeez!" I said. "I thought I was going to fall in!"

Seemed to dispel the tension nicely. Rest of the dance went OK as far as I remember.
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that's hysterical...
 
samina said:
I'm thinkin about this from the male perspective... I guess it's generally poor form to say somethin appreciative about it? But as a woman I feel very comfortable making comments to another chica that would be flirtacious & suggestive from a man. I never thought about, but I realize now I wouldn't hesitate telling a friend she looked "damn fine in that top", lol.
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Ditto. I'll make much more flirty comments to another girl, and be fine with receiving them from a girl much moreso than from a guy. Except one time when I wore my Flirty Red Dress to a dance and my girl friend insisted on commenting about my boobs to anyone and everyone. My husband, her husband, our teacher, teacher's partner, couple of other guys, couple of other girls. Could have killed her that night.

As DH puts it (wrt guys staring), "take a picture, it'll last longer" which is a quote from something, I believe. He's a firm believer in the quick scan, and he's very good at it.

Meh...I like my cleavage shirts. I think of it as drawing attention away from other parts...like my tummy.
 
I see nothing wrong looking at cleavage or looking at a lady. If beginners look down I lower myself and look up in their face and when they ask why...I say that I'm trying to figure out what is going on. I have many strategies for the looking downers. I usually get them to look up quite a bit during a dance. If it is I need to see where my feet are going...for example I threaten them that they must rely on paying attention to the connection and then deliberately do something to force them to do that...they get the message...
 
fascination said:
dunno...I always find it a bit pathetic when uh...there's a long crack going on...the guys will probably disagree...but I find that a bit much
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yes, i don't find that appealing, personally. but there are other ways to reveal stunningly, if one's attributes are... well... more ample than my own.
 
what's a girl to do? dance with big huge wet pit spots?
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I have an asst teacher who does sweat a lot and either she uses an antiperspirant that doesn't work or she just uses deodorant. Her pits do get quite wet to the point where I can feel it on my right hand and/or forearm, depending on the hold.

I'm not put off by it as I consider it part of physical activity like dancing. Afterall, it's not a business presentation. Besides, she's cute! ;)

squirrel said:
I love cleavage... I wear low cut things all the time. And I am not offended by men looking at my boobs.
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Well I love cleavage too and bless your little heart! :D
 
samina said:
Lol, we may be opposites in this regard. As long as I'm under cover, I don't mind being looked at...pro laughs that I'm the only one of his students who doesn't wail "stop looking at my a**!" during lessons, lol.

But despite my earthy humor, I am quite shy and modest in other regards...I cannot imagine wearing a tank top dancing. On others it looks smashing but for me...nope, not there as yet. Workin' on it, tho. I mean, if not now, when??? ;)
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I postively cannot stand it when pro is looking in the mirror while I have my back to it...and he does that quite alot, looking at my dancing I am sure but all I can think of is the barge-like width of my butt...am sure he can't miss it...HATE that...will not practice in the mirror with him yet...maybe 20 pounds from now...but ...uh...my topline is nice and I swae alot...

re nucat: honest to goodness I slather on enough antiperspirant that you could trace your name in it...doesn't matter...so if I have to get him wet I would rather do it without the huge pit stains being visible...thank the merciful heavens he sweats alot too...and is a tough guy and can take it;)
 
I enjoy a good view, but I refuse to do more than glance at it/look out of corner of my eye. Coward again. :)
 
fascination said:
re nucat: honest to goodness I slather on enough antiperspirant that you could trace your name in it...doesn't matter...so if I have to get him wet I would rather do it without the huge pit stains being visible...thank the merciful heavens he sweats alot too...and is a tough guy and can take it;)
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Ditto. Does not matter. And, regardless, it's not as if it's just pits that sweat.

Wish my teacher sweated a lot. Damn him. I cannot for the life of me figure that out, and I refuse to believe it's purely and issue of physical fitness (on his part) or lack thereof (on mine).
 
Peaches said:
Wish my teacher sweated a lot. Damn him. I cannot for the life of me figure that out, and I refuse to believe it's purely and issue of physical fitness (on his part) or lack thereof (on mine).
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LOL peaches. Yeah, ti's definitely not jsut about shape you're in, as even when I was in best shape of my life in HS(football player, gymnast, etc), I know I sweat more than other guys on team. Course, there were others who sweat even more than I did. Some difference in body/metabolism.
 
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