Looking at cleavage

Albeit fun...to a point, it is amazing that this thread has gone on this long. Vmec's thread should really put this thing to rest.

vmec said:
... the thread had gone drastically off-topic which is way I wasn't posting.

My original point was simple: look but don't gawk, posess some self control. ...and men should be able to "appriciate" in a respectable manner.
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In light of the recent gender specific posts, as said earlier, it is a simple matter of respect...which is lacking in many areas of life in the 2Ks.
 
vmec said:
^ I'm totally confused by your post.

Do you mean do I actually think men like when women ogle them? Yes, I do. This has already been confirmed twice. Of course there are exceptions.

Was I exaggerating with my "sweeeeet....." comment? yes, but that was just to get my point across.
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Not 'them' but their package. You were talking about package. Otherwise, it's always flattering when somebody finds you attractive. I presume if somebody would keep glancing at you as opposed to your breasts during the night you would not feel insulted, but admired.
 
vmec said:
Nope, if he's ugly and staring he's creepy if he's sexy and staring he's creepy.
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Sure, but a glance from a sexy and romantic guy is not the same as one from one, as you put it, who is unattractive, or worse surely? That doesn't sound biological...
 
On the T shirts, my neice, who is particularly well endowed, had one on that said:

WISH THESE WERE BRAINS

Twas actually a bit shocking...
 
elisedance said:
On the T shirts, my neice, who is particularly well endowed, had one on that said:

WISH THESE WERE BRAINS

Twas actually a bit shocking...
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Point taken, but something like this is a bad move because if anything it's interpreted more easily literally and is taken as being the opposite of witty. Occasionally my sense of humour gets the best of me and I particularly love one liners and something like that would've definitely stirred my creativity so to speak.
 
Are folks still trying to suggest that I care about what he looks like in order to look at me? Or at least there being a difference for feelings on my part if I did think the man was attractive? Honestly, I'd feel violated either way. You ladies may speak for your selfs if you'd feel differently.
 
A) I think that more than one woman has said it doesn't matter what the guy looks like, but rather whether or not he gives off the creep factor
B) I have never laughed at "percieved lack of package " in my life...though I suppose some are not beneath that....

I am not certain what kind of entertainment comes from ridiculing the personal attributes of others....

sure sign that this thread has gotten way too long in the tooth...

certain conclusions have been repeated over and over:

1) dont wear something that shows cleavage if you don't want men to notice it
2) men; notice but don't leer
3) if a lady is conservatively dressed but well endowed...particularly don't leer
 
vmec said:
Are folks still trying to suggest that I care about what he looks like in order to look at me? Or at least there being a difference for feelings on my part if I did think the man was attractive? Honestly, I'd feel violated either way. You ladies may speak for your selfs if you'd feel differently.
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Which Vancouver to you live near? Perhaps we have been leering at each other and didn't realize it... Hahahahahaa.....
Ducking and running from the moderators..............Wheeee.....
 
vmec said:
Are folks still trying to suggest that I care about what he looks like in order to look at me? Or at least there being a difference for feelings on my part if I did think the man was attractive? Honestly, I'd feel violated either way. You ladies may speak for your selfs if you'd feel differently.
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Sorry, I was not really referring to you specifically just exploring the concept in the general case by asking the question. Let me put it this way instead, in my case the creep threshold (duration of look if you like) is definitely considerably higher for a tall, good looking, confident, italian hombre than for the hunchback of Notre Dam. I'm sure thats not fair, nice or whatever but it is how it is and I am rather astonished that others could be so non-discriminatory on the subject.

There again (and this is an important difference), I'm er, on the small side, and probably not so sensitized, at least with respect to the theme of this thread :D
 
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