Yes, you are right. I just know what can be danced.
And, the bottom line is that this is different for every individual.
- dance music should move you to dance the dance of the music, whatever it is.
This is the problem.
"The" dance of the music is so convoluted. It is created of culture, tradition, geography, demographics, style, steps, and even just plain likes and dislikes. With very rare exception, no music/rhythm demands that only one dance be danced to it. We do so by either or all of those things previously mentioned.
This is why I have said in many threads previous that musicality cannot be taught, and is largely a moot point of discussion. Musicality, though having some requisites, is a feeling; it is what the music says 'to
me'. This might be different from what it says 'to you' or 'to him' or 'to her'. Because one person doesn't call a particular piece "dance music", another might not be able to be still when hearing it. Neither person should be called "wrong" for what
they 'feel' because
you (not meaning anyone in particular) don't feel it.
To dance a Swing to a tango might be considered to be very wrong by either or all of the aforementioned inputs, but one cannot say that it is "wrong" for another to
feel like swinging when 'they' hear a particular song.
MHO, move on from this discussion. Musicality is as individual as the individual, and has as many different meanings as there are dancers.