Yes it happens at Lo de Celia and elsewhere, the pity of it is that thatThis is from a site dealing with learning to play bass, but I believe that the explanation for the musicality of the milonguros is that they know the music so well that they don't have to "think" about it (and of course they aren't playing chords!). And as I've arleady written, I was mightily impressed and absolutely delighted to see a whole room full of people dancing the music at Lo de Celia.
is not the dance that is taught abroad but you can learn it for yourself.
Not only that, we don't have to wait to hear an orchestra, we can play
CDs and music from computers and just listen. A lot. My view is if you
don't understand it then listen, but don't analyse, and if after a time you
still aren't moved by it then tango is not for you. You must like the music.
You say the explanation for milonguero musicality but I think it only
partly explains. Apart from their years of experience they had a head start
over any of us, the music came first. It was the music of the city.
Although tourism interests, guide books etc., claim that tango music is
everywhere, it really is not except in the tourist spots.
However good dance music usually has a recognisable structure and inbuilt
audible clues for phrase endings, breaks and pauses. It's the approach
of those that dancers subconsciously recognise from repeated hearing.
And milongueros are aided by their own dance which can respond in an
instant to blocks on the floor and stops in the music.
To a greater or lesser extent you can get there on your own.Most of us could probably get there on our own, eventually, maybe. Ideally, someone who is teaching "musicality" can guide someone and help them get there sooner than they would on their own.
Musicality teaching almost invariably results in analysis to a greater
or lesser extent. If you must seek musicality lessons find a musical/rhythmic
dancer who teaches with music and dancing. And avoid musicians who
have an entirely different analytical approach to the music as their ears
and minds are tuned to the creation or playing of music. Dancers hear,
they don't play.
The milongueros you admire never had such lessons, they listened,
they danced. It works, do the same.
One thing was also clear, many of the women in BsAs loved and knew
the music too. Sadly the one recurrent theme here can be the lament
of women saying they don't really like the music and that can only mean
they don't listen to it when they dance. It shows.