Whining Thread #2

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fascination said:
yep...understandable...and it is a problem....I hope that he is willing to maybe adult better if he truly adores you and perhaps seeing more of you will motivate him...but if it doesn't well...the writing will be on the wall...but it is certainly worth a serious chat
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Yup that's for sure...I know that the amount of time I spend at dance is an issue, but it's not something that I want to change. I've finally got a partnership that's full of potential and I could be happy dancing for hours every day. But that means that I'm not home with boyf. Struggling to find a balance when I kinda feel like if he'd showed some long term commitment, I'd prioritise that, but he hasn't really showed any concrete commitment at all so I've chosen to prioritise other things.

I know he's unhappy about how much of my life I base around dance (e.g. Not getting a tattoo anywhere it couldn't be hidden, taking out piercings) and he sees it as me giving up a part of my identity...but I'm happy with how things are going at the moment.
 
L, just be careful that you aren't staying in a dysfunctional relationship simply because that's the type of relationship you are used to. That's a lousy way to run your life. Ask me how I know... :rolleyes:
 
Joe said:
Have you considered the possibility that your dancing equals his video gaming?
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Yup...he's well within his rights to dislike the amount of time I spend at dance, just as I have similar issues with gaming. And if that's the case, that's okay. I wouldn't really want to be spending any less time at dance to achieve the goals I've set myself.
 
Whine, whine, whine. While I think I'm still participating in the holiday showcase, I won't be dancing with who I thought I was, nor will I be dancing what I originally had in mind. I feel very let down. The new song I've picked reflects how I feel. I don't care the song might be considered a downer, it's still one of my favorites. There is also a high probability that the dance will be a train wreck because of the time involved.
 
Purr said:
Whine, whine, whine. While I think I'm still participating in the holiday showcase, I won't be dancing with who I thought I was, nor will I be dancing what I originally had in mind. I feel very let down. The new song I've picked reflects how I feel. I don't care the song might be considered a downer, it's still one of my favorites. There is also a high probability that the dance will be a train wreck because of the time involved.
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If it were me, I'd either stay home, or go and just spectate based on what you described.
 
raindance said:
If it were me, I'd either stay home, or go and just spectate based on what you described.
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I've already paid for the (moderates self once or twice) thing, which is why I'm still doing it. And I bought a new silver dress for the occasion as well. I am in an evil mood about this, because last year's holiday showcase imploded, although the circumstances are different. I ended up not dancing and staying home, but not this time.
 
Whine..... and have been trying so hard not to whinge, and I want my hair to come back, it is growing back with a vengeance and it is so ITCHY. It is currently like a mini mohawk. Think Loki's avatar out in a lightning storm:rolleyes:o_O:eek:
 
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