being you

I know no one else??

I guess overall yes, can't imagine being someone else, but I have some areas where I need to work on.
 
Shooshoo said:
I know no one else??

I guess overall yes, can't imagine being someone else, but I have some areas where I need to work on.
Click to expand...

same here...
if someone were to ask me this question several years ago, i would have said no way. but im learning to be more and more ...me.
and im discovering things about myself that i never imagined (good things). sure, there are things i would like to change and improve on, but overall, i think i like being me. for now...heehee.
 
Not really, no...

I mean, sometimes it's all right, and I know it could always be worse, but it's just in my personal nature to be miserable and disagreeable.
 
jenn said:
, but overall, i think i like being me. for now...heehee.
Click to expand...

I think when you first starting liking being yourself, there's no turning back :p.

It's just the discovering and understanding process which can take time.
 
PasoDancer said:
Not really, no...

I mean, sometimes it's all right, and I know it could always be worse, but it's just in my personal nature to be miserable and disagreeable.
Click to expand...

If you don't like your personal nature, why don't you do something about it?
 
Shooshoo said:
If you don't like your personal nature, why don't you do something about it?
Click to expand...

That's easier said than done... especially when you are to the point that you don't want to leave the house because of who you are.
 
That would be great if I had enough courage to leave my house.
Click to expand...

Throw out your television. (I am serious; I gave mine away three years ago... best decision I ever made. Well, maybe second best... deleting Everquest was probably number one...) You'll find other ways to fill your time, activities that don't just let you sit there passively, things that you will feel better about.

Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear. ~Ambrose Redmoon
 
SPratt74 said:
That's easier said than done... especially when you are to the point that you don't want to leave the house because of who you are.
Click to expand...

True.
I must admit I'll never understand. I sure hope it doesn't happen to me one day :???: .
 
PasoDancer said:
Not really, no...

I mean, sometimes it's all right, and I know it could always be worse, but it's just in my personal nature to be miserable and disagreeable.
Click to expand...
hmm...i empathize...I don't know if its my personal nature, but I know that I can get there and spend a season there if I let myself....I don't know you paso, but I suspect there's much more to that story than it being your nature.....as for me... hmmm...I go through seasons where I am pretty content, proud of myself able to see my qualities, pleased with my choices and enjoying the fruits therein...and I go through times when I loathe who I am and feel frustrated with where I am at and what I can do about it....On balance I doubt its much different than alot of people, even though I think we all like to think are issues are so unique...in some ways they are, in alot of ways, not so much IMO
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Dance Ads

Advertise on Dance Forums Reach dancers, teachers, studios, event organizers, and dance-friendly brands. View ad options
Back
Top