Very true. There's a saying amongst WCS dancers that applies to AT and BR, too:
Beginners do basics. Intermediate dancers do moves. Advanced dancers do basics...really well.
That is so true.
But it takes people (leaders) so long to figure this out.
Ask questions, meet dancers, and be part of the conversation.
Very true. There's a saying amongst WCS dancers that applies to AT and BR, too:
Beginners do basics. Intermediate dancers do moves. Advanced dancers do basics...really well.
There is something very satisfying about syncing a gentle volcada to the swell of the strings.
I'm just sayin'. ;-)
The first option is nothing worse than boring. The second option, according to me, is highly damaging both to you and to him. Dancing with a follower which is accustomed to figure out in spite of relaxing and thinking to the music and the connection is awful: you risk to ruin your next tandas.If the walking is good, yes. But boring, non-musical walking done crappily (and god help me if the embrace sucks) v. non-musical moves done crappily...I'll take the moves. At least it provides mental stimulation in trying to figure out what in the eff Mr. Guy was trying to lead.
The first option is nothing worse than boring. The second option, according to me, is highly damaging both to you and to him. Dancing with a follower which is accustomed to figure out in spite of relaxing and thinking to the music and the connection is awful: you risk to ruin your next tandas.
Totally agree - and the same applies to all dances. A little knowledge is a dangerous thing.Agree. Beginners are usually not as much trouble as "intermediate" or "advanced" dancers can be.
And what, pray, is a follower supposed to do, or how is she supposed to follow, when there isn't anything resembling a clear lead coming from the guy? Relaxing and melding with the music is great and all, but when you're getting no/mixed signals from the guy you've got to do something for the next 12 minutes...like figuring out what he's trying to get you to do, and not getting hurt in the process.The first option is nothing worse than boring. The second option, according to me, is highly damaging both to you and to him. Dancing with a follower which is accustomed to figure out in spite of relaxing and thinking to the music and the connection is awful: you risk to ruin your next tandas.
The advice I always give to followers is "if you don't know what to do, then do nothing". I only wish more followers would do this.And what, pray, is a follower supposed to do, or how is she supposed to follow, when there isn't anything resembling a clear lead coming from the guy?
When you put it that way...If that's going to get held against me as a follower (along with looking blissful, or not blissful, or having my eyes open, or shut, or wearing perfume, or not wearing perfume, or being too thin, or too fat, or too short, or too tall, or too casual, or not casual enough, or having too much pressure in the embrace, or not enough pressure in the embrace, or sitting and talking, or sitting and not talking, or standing in the wrong place, or whatever the hell else someone is going to judge me as a dancer by...other than how I dance)...well then fine.
A fine theory, but essentially worthless in practice. Soooo much easier said than done. That works fine...ish...if the guy is doing squirrely things in place, but if you're moving then it just is not possible. And even if you're in place, if you do nothing other than stand there until/unless a lead is clear you run a very very high risk of getting your foot stepped on or kicked or something else which brings with it very dire consequences.The advice I always give to followers is "if you don't know what to do, then do nothing". I only wish more followers would do this.
A fine theory, but essentially worthless in practice. Soooo much easier said than done. That works fine...ish...if the guy is doing squirrely things in place, but if you're moving then it just is not possible. And even if you're in place, if you do nothing other than stand there until/unless a lead is clear you run a very very high risk of getting your foot stepped on or kicked or something else which brings with it very dire consequences.