Looking at cleavage

sweavo said:
Ah, maybe you were in Newcastle then. Somehow they manage to carry it off up there, in sub-zero temperatures. Round here, it carries on well into their thirties!
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Chester - lovely town, but a bit bizzare social scene, the whole place was taken over by partying teenagers on Friday andSat night. Never felt uncomfortable though despite the 'Margaret Mead Moment' of all theat nether cleavage...
 
Watch the Dave Chappelle bit on wearing a cop's uniform. Dress like a cop, people will be inclined to think you're a cop. Can we extrapolate?
 
Party pooper!

I recommend following that link (it's another forum). snopes.com squashes the "medical study demonstrating that viewing breasts is good for a man's health" claim. I liked nullterm's response:
Now there's a MythBusters episode I'd watch.

I must agree. I find them aesthetically pleasing and the eyes do tend to gravitate. But getting the heart pumping? Such that a 10-minute ogle is equivalent to 30 minutes in the gym? Com'on now! A more blissful state of mind perhaps, but nothing equivalent to a physical work-out.

[Lionel Hampton's Flying Home is on the Big Band Channel right now]
 
Interesting issue though. Glancing at cleavage can not be the same as staring at it - surely the interest in one particular cleavage 'desensitizes' rather rapidly so that the initial glance is not the same as the look a few seconds later, let alone after 30 minutes.
 
I'm a huge fan of men NOT looking at my cleavage. It's not flattering, it's insulting. Flattering is a nice compliment, or a nice smile, insulting is staring at my private parts.

If the OP looks, and doesn't get bad reactions that's fine; but don't start assuming what you're doing will fly with all girls.

I've had a case of this... he stared and stared and stared until I said "hey sir, mind looking elsewhere?" He did for a move or 2 then back to my boobs... I left him in the middle of the dancefloor. Mean? Maybe. Did I feel violated? Yeah pretty much.
 
Thread won't stup until guys stop being interested in cleavage, and I don't see that happening any time soon for me. :)
 
vmec said:
I'm a huge fan of men NOT looking at my cleavage. It's not flattering, it's insulting. Flattering is a nice compliment, or a nice smile, insulting is staring at my private parts.

If the OP looks, and doesn't get bad reactions that's fine; but don't start assuming what you're doing will fly with all girls.

I've had a case of this... he stared and stared and stared until I said "hey sir, mind looking elsewhere?" He did for a move or 2 then back to my boobs... I left him in the middle of the dancefloor. Mean? Maybe. Did I feel violated? Yeah pretty much.
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Did you have exposed cleavage, or were you covered up?
 
DWise1 said:
Party pooper!

I recommend following that link (it's another forum). snopes.com squashes the "medical study demonstrating that viewing breasts is good for a man's health" claim. I liked nullterm's response:
Now there's a MythBusters episode I'd watch.

I must agree. I find them aesthetically pleasing and the eyes do tend to gravitate. But getting the heart pumping? Such that a 10-minute ogle is equivalent to 30 minutes in the gym? Com'on now! A more blissful state of mind perhaps, but nothing equivalent to a physical work-out.

[Lionel Hampton's Flying Home is on the Big Band Channel right now]
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If that were so i'd be in great shape f rom oggling men in tight pants and shirts off... Sadly it is not true... At least in my case...
This works both ways guys....
 
nucat78 said:
That's why they invented turtlenecks and other tops that aren't super low-cut and v-necked, neh? If a woman's gonna flaunt it, we're gonna look. Biology.
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No, I wasn't putting my girls out there to gain attention in anyway. Yes, some flaunt it... but like I said you better test waters carefully- those who flaunt it don't mind when you look those who don't (me) will leave you in the middle of a dance in the middle of the floor if you continually degrade me with your eyes.

I was wearing nothing more revealing than other women at these dances... maybe it's just because I'm bigger than average. Either way men: excercise some discreation.
 
vmec said:
No, I wasn't putting my girls out there to gain attention in anyway. Yes, some flaunt it... but like I said you better test waters carefully- those who flaunt it don't mind when you look those who don't (me) will leave you in the middle of a dance in the middle of the floor if you continually degrade me with your eyes.
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So you only want the hot guys to look, and everyone else is supposed to avert their eyes when you walk into the room? I so much don't feel sorry for you. Grow up. :rolleyes:
 
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