Wow, PNP. That's gutsy, insisting on that conversation when Pro clearly didn't want to have it. Good job!
For example, my coach doesn't like the American style in general. She despises Rhythm in particular, disparaging it as "sloppy Latin." The only reason she agreed to start working with my wife and me in Smooth is that the alternative was for me to break my competitive Standard partnership, which is something none of us wanted.
(Actually, my wife wouldn't have minded, because she used to agree with coach about the inferiority of the American style. She doesn't anymore--more on that later.)
This gets compounded with the fact that the teacher-student relationship has a clear power dynamic, and beginning students tend to adopt the opinions of their teachers because they haven't wide enough experience to distinguish individual opinions from generally accepted facts.
(this being one reason my wife used to dismiss American. Now, having studied Smooth--particularly with a coach who likes and specializes in it--she loves the performative nature of the style and doesn't want to go back)
So for you to NOT adopt Pro's opinion, despite his insistence and his use of the inherent power dynamic, is extremely unusual, and I congratulate you for it.
The main pitfall is that there are similarities and differences between the styles that can be confusing for a while. International Waltz, for example, is structurally similar to Bronze Smooth Waltz, but quite different from Silver+ Smooth Waltz. By contrast, International Foxtrot bears strong resemblance to Silver+Smooth Foxtrot, while Bronze Smooth Foxtrot is very much its own unique thing. And Viennese Waltz, while superficially similar across the styles, is actually almost nothing alike musically and structurally.
And Smooth has no Quickstep, which makes me a bit sad. All that uptempo Big Band music, and no steps for it. Single-time Swing just doesn't land the same, IMO.
I've seen a similar attitude from every coach I've worked with. They have styles they like, styles they don't, and justifications for each feeling that they rationalize as logical, though they are really just emotional.What I’ve been getting stymied on is when he demands to know WHY I want to study Standard. His usual response to whatever I say is, “but you can learn that just as well in Smooth, plus a lot more.” That, or the reasons I give him are the very same reasons he doesn’t like it (more subtle, more emphasis on technique & less on “performing,” constant partner connection/closed hold, no open figures)...
And just because HE doesn’t like Standard, why is he so resistant to the idea that I might?
For example, my coach doesn't like the American style in general. She despises Rhythm in particular, disparaging it as "sloppy Latin." The only reason she agreed to start working with my wife and me in Smooth is that the alternative was for me to break my competitive Standard partnership, which is something none of us wanted.
(Actually, my wife wouldn't have minded, because she used to agree with coach about the inferiority of the American style. She doesn't anymore--more on that later.)
This gets compounded with the fact that the teacher-student relationship has a clear power dynamic, and beginning students tend to adopt the opinions of their teachers because they haven't wide enough experience to distinguish individual opinions from generally accepted facts.
(this being one reason my wife used to dismiss American. Now, having studied Smooth--particularly with a coach who likes and specializes in it--she loves the performative nature of the style and doesn't want to go back)
So for you to NOT adopt Pro's opinion, despite his insistence and his use of the inherent power dynamic, is extremely unusual, and I congratulate you for it.
I think so, too, speaking as someone who has followed the path of Standard>>Smooth myself.I genuinely believe that studying Standard will HELP my Smooth in the long run, even if it slows down my visible progress.
The main pitfall is that there are similarities and differences between the styles that can be confusing for a while. International Waltz, for example, is structurally similar to Bronze Smooth Waltz, but quite different from Silver+ Smooth Waltz. By contrast, International Foxtrot bears strong resemblance to Silver+Smooth Foxtrot, while Bronze Smooth Foxtrot is very much its own unique thing. And Viennese Waltz, while superficially similar across the styles, is actually almost nothing alike musically and structurally.
And Smooth has no Quickstep, which makes me a bit sad. All that uptempo Big Band music, and no steps for it. Single-time Swing just doesn't land the same, IMO.
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