I will leave this statement as it is
John. But there might be
two possible explanations to this fact:
a) the reason runs deep into the technique itself (I would suppose that is your stance),
Partly. It is the ballroomisation of tango, making it more like other dances
set apart mainly by its signature moves which many want to learn
and commercial teachers are only to happy to teach.
b) those who do projection got a different mindset concerning space, unfolding, expressing.
This too. The idea that they can freely express even when there is no room
for such extrovert behaviour. And if there really is no room, step projecting
two footed dances become anchored on the spot doing trancy things,
even maybe with their eyes closed. Tango is the only dance I know that
pretends that you can dance with closed eyes.
Whatever it is, it isn't dance.
Think you know that projecting with the torso 3° upwards means tiny steps.
Thus it is possible to lead in a reserved manner by projection.
If projectionists did dance tiny steps they might learn that there is
something else which goes back to the roots of Tango.
Your execution of tiny steps needs explanation.
A reserved manner by projectionists often results in my above description -
slow, on the spot and the eyes-closed follower being lead like a little dog.
But I would tend to explanation b) because (perhaps like me) all those who had a rather academic education in dancing know of their possibilities and feel imprisoned in the single file of the ronda. I would argue this way round: both types of tango dancers simply do not share the same mindset. Not the technique itself is the reason.
The technique is opposed to crowded social dancing,
it is all about movement - ballroom style.
I agree that step projectionists also often have a different mindset
which you sum up by describing your own dilemma. But Tango
social dancing is in a ronda which imposes co-existence or leave
the floor. Some dancers I know leave the floor, thankfully.
What they often don't realise is that their self-expression
selfishly expressed on the dance floor make them intrusive
even when the fewer sardines in the ronda have more space.
Furthermore, projection not only works with the torso, it also works with the arms, the head, and even with the eyes. Have you ever had a lesson with Gustavo Naveira? He calls his leading technique "open the space", and the follower goes this way. And already a small saccada of the eyes can open the space. And of course this space is in most cases not found within the lane. Very often we now have milongas with two floors, one with lanes (and restrained music), and one floor for expressive dancers (and motivating music). Perhaps our community will split.
Well, thank you for that understanding.
As for Naveira, Rick McGarrey called his style "Kung Fu Dancing".
You can see his threatening effect in a video on TangoandChaos.