No, you were clear, and I still think my suggestion will work, but I'll talk to my partner about it. She provides the impetus to make the 2 of you go around based on the fact that you led it with your body. She is providing energy to accomplish the move you indicated should be done because you can't really provide it if you are just pivoting.
If you change your upper body, she should back off on her energy because she feels a different lead for a different move to be done. Her momentum is in her lower body taking the steps. Her upper body responding to yours tells her what steps to take. Even while providing the energy, she shouldn't be ignoring your indications (leads) given by your body.