What are DJs doing wrong

It is more on the organizers. If they tell DJs that it is going to be 3 song Tanda, DJs will prepare for that.

Many here DJ. I don’t. I do not think the DJs will have a challenge to drop one song from their 4-song tanda play list. It should be easier to compose a 3-song tanda. Only those who DJ can opine if that is true.

P.S. - For the umpteenth time, I never been to a milonga with three songs tanda yet. That includes all the cities and places I danced. I would prefer a 3 song tanda.
I usually do 4 song tango tandas, and for every thing else (vals, milonga, or alternative), I do 3 song tandas. The one exception for me is for practicas, where the tangos are also 3 song tandas.
 
I usually do 4 song tango tandas, and for every thing else (vals, milonga, or alternative), I do 3 song tandas. The one exception for me is for practicas, where the tangos are also 3 song tandas.
A practica doesn't need tandas (or even a DJ), they only disturb the couples who are working together.
But I also play 3 song tandas at low key milongas, where the dancers' attention span isn't long enough for more.
 
A practica doesn't need tandas..
Basically, a práctica doesn't need someone else's music at all. During my active tango period, I always created my own playlist and brought it with me. If other couples didn't agree with my list, they could always come to an agreement with me to avoid each other's schedules. But luckily the majority of tango dancers (especially male leaders) were immune to my musical selection, not to say deaf! Most tango dancers can hardly distinguish tango from waltz or cha-cha-chá or milonga.
 
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Basically, a práctica doesn't need someone else's music at all. During my active tango period, I always created my own playlist and brought it with me. If other couples didn't agree with my list, they could always come to an agreement with me to avoid each other's schedules. But luckily the majority of tango dancers (especially male leaders) were immune to my musical selection, not to say deaf! Most tango dancers can hardly distinguish tango from waltz or cha-cha-chá or milonga.
All of our prácticas have a DJ, which I prefer.
 
So these rather are práctilongas?
No, not really. Even the most rudimentary prácticas here have a DJ. There are some that become practilongas in the sense that people mostly dance (rather than practice fundamental exercises or specific movements) but the prácticas are what you make of them. They're flexible.
 
I’d actually enjoy 2 song tandas at a practilonga. Short and snappy get around to all my friends/favourites and throw in a charity tanda. Nothing worse than getting stuck with a bad partner for multiple songs.

Had a guy at the last practilonga try to manipulate me into a second tanda. I’d already changed my shoes! I only danced with him the first time because there was low attendance.
 
Had a guy at the last practilonga try to manipulate me into a second tanda. I’d already changed my shoes! I only danced with him the first time because there was low attendance.

If you mean trying to convince you to dance one more last time when you are changing shoes, I see guys do that often. Half the time followers will change mind and say yes.
 
If you mean trying to convince you to dance one more last time when you are changing shoes, I see guys do that often. Half the time followers will change mind and say yes.
Yes but my community is very small and guys accept changed shoes as “I’m done dancing”. It’s not unusual to continue chatting or enjoying the music for a little longer.

The guy was using manipulative language and tactics as if we had a relationship. He was unknown to me before that evening and not someone I’d be keen to dance with again.
 
Yes but my community is very small and guys accept changed shoes as “I’m done dancing”. It’s not unusual to continue chatting or enjoying the music for a little longer.
It's your personal choice what you do in those circumstances, or even the 2nd tanda. Some may welcome another dance opportunity; others may want to get home, or have another appointment. 'No', means no. EndOf. It's just about how it's phrased to that person.
 
The guy was using manipulative language and tactics as if we..
In my early years, I was frequently treated very harshly by followers if I dared to ask someone who was about to change her shoes. I have stored and internalized this visual deadline as an important codigo of tango. Therefore, I think that followers should also strictly adhere to it and also teach it to leaders.
 

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